*nods head* Yep, sounds good.Does it pass the Picard test? If the Picard character of Star Trek fame wouldn't do or say something, you probably shouldn't either, at least not while at work.
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*nods head* Yep, sounds good.Does it pass the Picard test? If the Picard character of Star Trek fame wouldn't do or say something, you probably shouldn't either, at least not while at work.
Yes... Yes they should. If the offending comment is important enough to jeopardize someone's career over, it's important enough for them to step outside of their comfort zone in an attempt at resolution before escalation. If their social skills are so under-developed that they can't even attempt to solve something as minor as a nickname like "princess" or a comment like "where are you from?" they have no business working in an environment where other people might interact with them. It's not society's responsibility to prevent someone from being offended or experiencing discomfort, that's up to the individual.That's how I would do it too if I were ever offended by how someone addressed me at work (note that in my many years working, this has never happened), but not everyone is comfortable with direct confrontation, and they shouldn't have to be in order to be respected at work.
My mother raised me well. She raised me to always be considerate of the people around me, and that meant watching what I do and what I say to make sure I don't hurt anyone. Again, this is not some SJW agenda. This is just good manners. Of course a good person doesnt want to hurt others with what they do or say, so they are constantly conscious of these things.
I'd argue dating at work is completely and totally inappropriate. I've seen it once in my career, and in that case the two apparent fell for eachother at work, but because it was inappropriate didn't tell anyone, until she could find a new job elsewhere. Still inappropriate, but I guess its the best course of action given the circumstances.
That's exactly the problem. That type of nicknames and banter are not OK with the guys either. Not at work, and not on your free time. If you cant be civil, not poke fun of people, give then nicknames or tell obscene jokes, then you are not a very good person. The traditional "locker room talk" is not ok in ANY setting. We should be speaking exactly the same to men and women, respectfully as fellow humans. Crude, vulgar jokes, poking fun, nicknames, these things are unbecoming on a teenager, but at least understandable as they are still learning how to be people. By the time you are a grown-ass man, you should have outgrown them a long time ago.
That's how I would do it too if I were ever offended by how someone addressed me at work (note that in my many years working, this has never happened), but not everyone is comfortable with direct confrontation, and they shouldn't have to be in order to be respected at work.
I guess the way I see the work environment is this. Does it pass the Picard test? If the Picard character of Star Trek fame wouldn't do or say something, you probably shouldn't either, at least not while at work.
Good lord, I bet you’re just a raging ball of hilarity to work with. Try pulling the stick out of your ass long enough to see how real people live and work.
I happened to meet my wife at work, we’ve been married for 15 years. Happens all the time in our company of roughly 3000 people.
Well, I say enjoy flirting with women at work if you still can because that ship is not only about to sail, but to go out to sea and sink and sink deeply. No doubt this will all change sooner rather than later. My best friend told me his wife's workplace is initiating a new dress code starting in 2019 that is designed to address harassment in the workplace. In short, take the sexiness away from women and out of the workplace. less cleavage, longer skirts. Additional causal days.
Well, I say enjoy flirting with women at work if you still can because that ship is not only about to sail, but to go out to sea and sink and sink deeply. No doubt this will all change sooner rather than later. My best friend told me his wife's workplace is initiating a new dress code starting in 2019 that is designed to address harassment in the workplace. In short, take the sexiness away from women and out of the workplace. less cleavage, longer skirts. Additional causal days.
did someone there watch Jordan Peterson interviews? 'cause that was one his points in the vice interview. why are woman displaying sexual ques in the workplace and getting upset over the advances of men? if everyone dresses business like that wont happen. and remember, we're still figuring out how to work together, its only been 60 years of women in the workforce.Well, I say enjoy flirting with women at work if you still can because that ship is not only about to sail, but to go out to sea and sink and sink deeply. No doubt this will all change sooner rather than later. My best friend told me his wife's workplace is initiating a new dress code starting in 2019 that is designed to address harassment in the workplace. In short, take the sexiness away from women and out of the workplace. less cleavage, longer skirts. Additional causal days.
Burkas required! Then finally we will be free of these evul urges. Slavery is freedom. Ignorance is strength!2019 in the office, 2029 on the streets. Can't have them seducing all the stallions at work.
I thought I was falling in love with a coworker recently. Then it got cold and she stopped wearing all these super short dresses and suddenly I was fine again.
2019 in the office, 2029 on the streets. Can't have them seducing all the stallions at work.
I thought I was falling in love with a coworker recently. Then it got cold and she stopped wearing all these super short dresses and suddenly I was fine again.
Which they CANNOT do FYI. All of linux is distributed under GPL, and any developers that have distributed their code under it, cannot legally withdraw or revoke their license. They can stop their future contributions from using the GPL, but what is already in there now they granted an irrevocable license to all to use, modify, and distribute it via the GPL.
You seem to be confusing lust with love. I have zero problem with workmates finding out they belong together and starting a relationship even if it can potentially lead to drama years down the line. That's a far cry from every last man in the office ogling cleavage or making crude comments behind a workmate's back. If those "stallions" can't handle that like mature adults, well sucks to be them right?2019 in the office, 2029 on the streets. Can't have them seducing all the stallions at work.
I thought I was falling in love with a coworker recently. Then it got cold and she stopped wearing all these super short dresses and suddenly I was fine again.
Not as easy as one might think. Sure, you could replace it but then you could end up with a legal fight over whether or not the new code is different enough not to be covered by the previous copyright. Think Google vs. Sun Microsystems. If they did pull their code it could very well irrevocably cripple the Linux kernel depending upon what code was pulled.even if they did, it probably wouldn't be enough of them that the affected areas couldn't be replaced with fresh code.
Does it pass the Picard test? If the Picard character of Star Trek fame wouldn't do or say something, you probably shouldn't either, at least not while at work.
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Yamakuzure said:You didn't really read into the CC CoC, right?notageek said:Who is needlessly debating?
Why don't you just get on with the job and let CoC stay in its place?
Nobody is holding a gun to your head.
Well, basically a CoC is a nice thing. It creates guidelines you can look up when in doubt. Something to get orientation.
The ContributorCovenant (CC) variant that gets pressed onto whoever doesn't say "no" firmly enough, pressed (and/or forced on) by its author CoralineAda, has some tiny flaws in it, which are undoubtedly intentional:So actually these points give god like power to project team members, basically allowing the lead team to harass and to ban anybody they like to.
- The list of examples of unacceptable behavior by participants include:
This is a vague and unreasonable way of basically saying: "Whatever I don't like". This is bullshit and needs to be removed.
- "Other conduct which could reasonably be considered inappropriate in a professional setting
- There is this part:
"Project maintainers have the right and responsibility to remove, edit, or reject comments, commits, code, wiki edits, issues, and other contributions that are not aligned to this Code of Conduct, or to ban temporarily or permanently any contributor for other behaviors that they deem inappropriate, threatening, offensive, or harmful."
Which simply gives them god like power to remove anyone without a clear defined reason. This section is bullshit.- "This Code of Conduct applies both within project spaces and in public spaces when an individual is representing the project or its community. Examples of representing a project or community include using an official project e-mail address, posting via an official social media account, or acting as an appointed representative at an online or offline event. Representation of a project may be further defined and clarified by project maintainers."
Or in other words, if they want to kick someone out, they just need to find anything from anytime and anywhere, define it as "deemed inappropriate" and simply declare the wrongdoing was while representing the project.
And you know what? CoralineAda has been caught countless times violating their own CC CoC - to silence critics.
https://news.slashdot.org/comments.pl?sid=12620976&cid=57325250 said:The CC is an SJW vehicle promulgated by Coraline Ada and a related group of activist malcontents. While the CC appears on the surface to be a call of civility, it's actually the tip of a very long and exsanguatory anti-meritocracy spear, one that ultimately seeks to elevate high-verbal-IQ non-technical politics-playing San-Francisco-residing cliques of social justice advocates into positions of recognition and authority in the free software world and beyond. If you write code and you're good at it, these people are a direct threat to your status, your hobby, and your livelihood, because if these people get their way, your technical excellence becomes secondary to their wokeness.
And she doesn't even disguises her intention:
Erm, what's in there? (I am blocked, like anyone who has ever replied in a critical way to her/him/it.)virtguru said:
This whole COC business needs to stop. Now they are starting the character assassination campaign.
More will most likely follow, they will stop at nothing.
Sad days ... Sad days indeed
Here is a masterpiece of trolling the SJWs: https://github.com/ContributorCovenant/contributor_covenant/issues/569