I guess I'm just different. I'm enjoying the hell out of this and frankly I think parts of it are downright gorgeous. It's sucked me right in.
Numerous outlets have said: Stick it out past the first two planets and it takes off. That's a known quantity.
In fairness, BioWare always fucks up the early parts of the game in this way. Mass Effect 1 is a snore until you get clear of the Citadel. Mass Effect 2's probably the best as it lets you navigate and start doing things more quickly. ME3's got the same issue as does Dragon Age Inquisition. I've never been able to get past the starting area in that.