That's fair enough, there could be something we don't know to explain why you're not getting fucked to death instantly like everyone else. Maybe you're magic or something, or it's just one of them new-fangled plot holes. I'm not too fussed, I just thought it weird that you were being attacked by all this shit but it doesn't decide to kill you instantly like everyone else, it instead prefers to just attack you a bit at a time. For some reason.
Not played this yet, I'm assuming you play the same character from the original...in the first game it's basically hinted at that you're Almas first born and that explains your psychic powers, maybe you're protected by your own power, or maybe Alma and the forces that surround her are toying with you, rather than directly killing you.
I always felt manipulated by Alma in the game but it did seem like most of her appearences weren't direclty hostile, at least while not in little ghost girl form, it was just freaky as fuck, she only attempted to harm you when she was in what is presumably her "real" form.
I'm sure it will all make sense in the end, the story behind FEAR was well constructed, I have faith the sequel will give us a similar experience.