In the real world there are consequences for the asshats being asshats though, like getting their ass kicked or getting thrown in jail or getting killed. There's no serious consequence to being an asshat in a game like this. They don't care that you fought them off, they think it's funny that they kept 5 other people from doing anything but dealing with them for hours on end.
If game devs don't do anything to discourage asshattery then it doesn't matter what the game is supposed to be about, the game becomes "Deal With Asshats", and not many people want to play that game. Sure you had fun that one time you did it and maybe one or two of the other 4 did but are you still going to be having fun doing it a year for now after having dealt with asshats for hours a night every night for the previous year?
Another reason you can't compare game asshattery with RL is because you can't quit RL and go do something else, you have to deal with the asshats and as I mentioned before the dealings tend to be harsh in order to discourage future asshattery. But when a game dev lets the asshats win in their games, people DO have the option to quit and do something else, and they will, then all that's left is the asshats and anti-asshats crying in the forums that the servers are shutting down soon.
If game devs don't do anything to discourage asshattery then it doesn't matter what the game is supposed to be about, the game becomes "Deal With Asshats", and not many people want to play that game. Sure you had fun that one time you did it and maybe one or two of the other 4 did but are you still going to be having fun doing it a year for now after having dealt with asshats for hours a night every night for the previous year?
Another reason you can't compare game asshattery with RL is because you can't quit RL and go do something else, you have to deal with the asshats and as I mentioned before the dealings tend to be harsh in order to discourage future asshattery. But when a game dev lets the asshats win in their games, people DO have the option to quit and do something else, and they will, then all that's left is the asshats and anti-asshats crying in the forums that the servers are shutting down soon.