Well the game just went on EZ mode for me. (For the most part)
I found a white 5L 2H Vaal Great Sword and I used like 5-6 Chaos orbs after the alchemy and now it has ungodly DPS.(like 475DPS) Not a lot of stats on it other than much increased damage but I'm very happy with it. It will definitely be the first thing I use an exalt on so I can get some additional stats on it.
I'm running Double-Strike + Multi-Strike + Melee Splash + Life Leech + Faster Attacks. With a Haste Aura I'm currently at almost 7000 DPS. If I run Determination, instead, for added armor, I'm at about 6500DPS (I haven't leveled my haste because I couldn't afford to run it before)
Then, I had a yellow belt drop on a map and I used 1 of the remaining chaos orbs I had left over from crafting the sword, and it took only 1 to give it some ungodly stats. IIRC, the stats are like +12% all resists +35 str +25 all stats +275 armor +75 Life and 40% increased stun
After I got those two upgrades, I went ahead and completed the remaining quests, which gave me 2 more skill points to use, so I took an 8% life and a 12% life. I also noticed that I had a +30 Int node that I no longer needed so I used a regret to reallocate that to a +12% damage with 2H weapons
I'm at like 3450 life now, ~8000 unbuffed armor(>12k buffed), resists are all well over 100%, and DPS went from previous best of 4200 DPS to a new best of 6995+DPS
Now I should be able to run some maps and get some decent loots to sell
what's your level?
Hatred is a much better aura for DPS
Haste isn't that much of a DPS boost since it adds to your attack speed total instead of multiplies, but it could be useful for survivability since you're 2H and won't be stuck in MS animation as long
Try to get LL on gear and replace your LL gem with Melee Physical Damage. You'll get a very nice DPS increase.