Parmenides
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Zarathustra[H];1036009826 said:Noone is sayoing that abstinence is bad, only that abstinence only education is completely ineffective.
Teenagers are notoriously rebellious and do stuff they are not supposed to anyway, even before you add in the extreme hormonal sex drives during puberty.
Essentially, as much as we may not like it, teenagers are going to ahve sex either way, so it's better to teach them about how to protect themselves, than to to teach them abstinence which they are not going to obide by anyway.
To me, that's more like saying "Try not to have sex, but if you do have sex, do this." That sort of instruction doesn't go over well human psychology. This is similar to teaching kids to pirate software: "People are going to pirate stuff. Don't do it. But if you do it, don't go to limeware but use torrents instead. It's a little safer. Here's how you can use torrents...." and then we can rationale it as "people are going to pirate anyways, might as well teach them the proper use so that their computers and our school computers don't get infected." Obviously we don't need to be teaching safer piracy habits when teaching intro to computer 101 classes. It will only lead to more piracy.
Before the 60's there were fewer teen pregnancies and STD's. They must have done something right. Of course some kids are going to do it anyways, but reduction of STD's and teen pregnancies can done without showing kids how to put on a condom. That just makes the kids go even crazier than before. It only helps kids think that teen sex is supposed to be a normal occurrence. Reduction in STD's and teen pregnancies happen when there is a reduction in sex in general.