bonkrowave said:Nowadays, if you use a wooden spoon or fly swatter, CPS comes knocking, takes your kids and puts you in jail.
Many people fail to realize that its time to get tuff.
I had a few friends, when I was just a school boy, that have since gone down the wrong path. They are either lazy do nothings never be anything, or violent and locked up in jail. And I look back at when I was over at their house when I was a kid. I distinctively remember their parents not discipline or punishing these kids at all. The kids ran wild and didn't listen to there parents.
Now it is either a huge coincidence, that these same kids have problems now, or it is a perfect example of what happens when you do not discipline your children, and instill the correct morals and values.
Society is slowly going down the crapper. Its time to get tuff. Positive reinforcement does help a Childs self esteem, but a child also needs to understand there are consequences when they act outside of parameters set first by parents, and then when they mature, by society.
QFT and add to that the continued pansification (I made that word up, as if you couldn't tell ) of America with all this non-competitive non-sense. Where everyone is a winner, no one is a loser, and no one gets their precious feelings hurt. By HECK.....if my kid wants to play little league....there is going to be a score kept! My money is not going towards buying every crybaby a trophy at the end. You get what you earn in this world...at least that is the way it was and still should be.