Agreed. Monitors are usually a large investment and usually intended to last a good while. Choosing the right one especially when you end up needing to make major sacrifices in most cases isn't easy.The monitors were THE HARDEST decision to make in building my sig rig, there simply isn't a single solution that doesn't have trade offs. I'd have LOVED to buy three 120Hz IPS desktop monitors if they existed.
You develop a mental block to it over time. I catch my reflection every now and then, but it's never in a distracting or annoying way. It's just a "oh, there I am" sort of thing and then I get back to what I was doing.I don't know how people with glossy screens tolerate or fail to notice the glare. Even in standard lighting its intolerable for me.