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Pretty much. Her mother got knocked up when she was 17 with their first (of four). They got married, he graduated, when to UofL and earned a double masters in EE in four years. Shes been a stay at home mother her entire life. My wife was raised that men bring in the money and take care of the bills, and the women raise the kids, and keep the house in order. It was never directed that way, but that was the example she grew up with. Her mother has always been a mouse as far as opening her mouth goes.
All the kids are out of the house now, and her father thanked her mother by buying a 15 acre farm and three horses for her. He gave her her dream in thanks.
I've known twice as many:I've only known 1.5 female programmers in my life. One of them was only female from the waist up.![]()
I've known twice as many:
One was a lesbian, one was a nerd in the purest sense who loved what she did, and the other seemed to be in it just to get attention from the men. I'd call that a microcosm representing a diverse group![]()
It's been a while since someone wrote one of these articles complaining about the salary gap between men and women in the tech industry. It's kinda hard to take this serious when all the data comes from Glassdoor and the author likes using lines like "being computer programmer is even sweeter if you have a dick."
Life is sweet for computer programmers. Companies crave their coding skills and will do anything to attract and keep them -- offer a $500,000 signing bonus, hand out salaries in the $100,000 to $200,000 range and even provide company-funded ski trips to Tahoe. But being computer programmer is even sweeter if you have a dick.
Personally, I think it's pretty fucked up that she gets 20% less for doing the same job.You are saying someone is a loser if they are satisfied?
Really? I've worked with at least a dozen over the years and on average their skill level was the same as the guys I worked with (mostly good). The worst I worked with was definitely a guy (I mean an empty chair was almost as productive).I've only known 1.5 female programmers in my life. One of them was only female from the waist up.![]()
Same in many ways. My wife is Korean and she was raised in an environment and culture where women typically are housewives and don't have jobs past the age of 25 cause by then they are supposed to be home with a first born son.
I don't think that's what she wanted though and she found me as a way out of that future. Instead she came to the states as a soldier's wife, worked some BS jobs, had my kids, took care of me, became a Barber and mostly worked her ass off all her life. Maybe it was different because it was her choice. It's probably true that it would have been easier if she hadn't married me. But now the kids are gone and I refuse her nothing. She's my Honey Bunny and I dote on her and she's getting lazier and a little spoiled and I am happy with it. She's earned it.
Ah, female hates job, leaves job, wines on Glassdoor that it must be because of "gender discrimination."
Every company I've worked for used the same payscale for both men and women. I'm curious about where this phantom "pay gap" comes from.
So.. Apparently the Author did not actually read the Glassdoor article they are pulling their data from.
"Differences in education, age and years of experience "explain little" of tech's gender pay gap, says the report." <---- From The garbage Article
"Based on more than 505,000 salaries shared by full-time U.S. employees on Glassdoor, men earn 24.1 percent higher base pay than women on average. In other words, women earn about 76 cents per dollar men earn. However, comparing workers with similar age, education and years of experience shrinks that gap to 19.2 percent. Further, comparing workers with the same job title, employer and location, the gender pay gap in the U.S. falls to 5.4 percent (94.6 cents per dollar)." From the Glassdoor Reports.
Yay for cherrypicking data to support erroneous conclusions.
Societal expectations and pressures, women are discouraged to act out like that. When women do demand shit people see them as bitches, cold etc. Still not the best way to get paid well, just look really sexy.
Personally, I think it's pretty fucked up that she gets 20% less for doing the same job.![]()
There are female computer programmers?
*Edit for clarity* this was a joke, I actually work with female computer programmers, but the male : female ratio is very slanted. It's basically the reverse of massage therapy or nursing so if you take that to 11: no women are programmers. There, joke thoroughly killed.
Who do you think codes those Barbie games?
I know a trans programmer who did work for Haliburton and everything I saw her do looked pretty dang good.
Men who drive Chevy's![]()
The Glassdoor "study" apparently does take into account adjusted salaries, ......................... Just a couple of those could easily skew the numbers.
Sure, but it's not a one sided thing.
I first started contract work I was kind of surprised at how employers didn't seem to like their people talking about their pay. Then I grew to learn why. It causes trouble. The reason it causes trouble is that people only seem to apply the concept of fairness in regards to their current pay completely forgetting that they all had the same fair chance when they were negotiating their salary and accepting their job positions.
It's just something I learned awhile ago.
Everyone has to make their own deal.
I've only known 1.5 female programmers in my life. One of them was only female from the waist up.![]()
Really? I've worked with at least a dozen over the years and on average their skill level was the same as the guys I worked with (mostly good). The worst I worked with was definitely a guy (I mean an empty chair was almost as productive).
Including wearing a dress?
Sure, but it's not a one sided thing.
I first started contract work I was kind of surprised at how employers didn't seem to like their people talking about their pay. Then I grew to learn why. It causes trouble. The reason it causes trouble is that people only seem to apply the concept of fairness in regards to their current pay completely forgetting that they all had the same fair chance when they were negotiating their salary and accepting their job positions.
It's just something I learned awhile ago.
Everyone has to make their own deal.
IME, most contractors actually work for some other company, so FICA is covered, but the insurance typically is not. I know you do contract work, so I guess that's not the case for you, but where I'm at, we have lots of contractors and they're not independent contractors.And to add to this you also have the new face of IT and software development. Temporary workers hired under short term contracts and as staffing teams to come in like "the pros from Dover" who are here to do a job. These guys get higher salaries but there are usually no benefit packages at all and FICA contributions, etc.. are the responsibility of the worker and not the employer. It's sort of like your working for yourself and you don't really hire onto the company team, your just a hired gun and when the job is done, hit the road and look for the next one. The staffing team version has an office and the peeps are employees and the firm lines up the next work custom building teams for each new contract.
It's more common than it use to be. When I was in college, there was probably a dozen in the program through my sophomore year, but after that, no more than 6 stuck with it. OTOH, there were quite a few in grad school, but very few were Americans.I've known dozens of female Linux admins, Windows admins, networking experts, computer animators, and even the occasional odd female hardware technician. Oddly, I've only one real female programmer. though and one tranny programmer. Until now I thought the programming world was a sausage fest and that's all there was to it.
The fact that you don't talk about pay is why many don't negotiate. They don't know they can get more. AFAIC, it's in every employees best interest to find out what everyone else is making so they can negotiate for more. The only beneficiary of people not knowing what co-workers make is the employer.
At this point, I'm a big fan of looking elsewhere turning in my notice when asked why, say $$$ when they offer more, if it's not insanely more I'll say, you should have given me that at the last review. Even if it's insanely more, I'm still on the way out...just delayed until I can find a better offer.
Pay should be based on the work, not your negotiation skills. Maybe we should all hire agents to negotiate our salaries, which will have to be 10% higher to pay our agent's fee.
IME, most contractors actually work for some other company, so FICA is covered, but the insurance typically is not. I know you do contract work, so I guess that's not the case for you, but where I'm at, we have lots of contractors and they're not independent contractors.
Problem is, it's not all one sided. I've seen it and felt it myself. Someone finds out that their coworkers are making more because they undersold themselves. Now that person is unhappy, but management generally isn't going to renegotiate the salary that person contracted for. He might get a decent bump come job evals, but typically no. Sometimes they threaten to quit, etc, sometimes they get the raise, sometimes not. Usually they just get unhappy and leave.
Start ups are a bit different. At those, you're working your ass off from a piece of the future. I'm really talking about established companies. And there is a disparity there with women too, though more with opportunity to move up. Have a good friend who's quite talented and hard working and she finally had to go to HR and raise hell, because guys less talented than here were getting promoted over her for years. When she told me she hadn't been promoted for 10 years, I was in shock, because she was training the people they then promoted over her. And all the talk on here about women wanting more flex time or time off for kids, doesn't apply. This is a real thing, no matter how many guys on here claim it isn't.Oh no, I have never been an independent contractor, always worked for the big guys or their favorite new sub. I'm with a startup now, we just topped the 50 employee mark, benefits are improving as the company grows. You help these companies build themselves you get known. It can help.
Glassdoor is not just ads. You can go there right now and post anonymously about the company you're at. And despite what your quote says, lower level people can't post and at my company, people that work in stores post as much (possibly more) than those working in the offices."It's important to note that Glassdoor's survey has some limitations. The company's data come from online job postings, so its study might not include many lower-paying jobs at tech companies, like assembly line work, gardening or kitchen help."
How the hell do you get gender based pay gap info from want ads? At all, much less reliably?
Yes, and they should leave. That type of action forces companies to stop underpaying employees. That's exactly what I'd like to see happen. Employers have virtually no loyalty to employees, and employees should feel the same about there employers. Unless you're a superstar (and you know it -- and the 2 don't always go together), sharing info only helps you in your career. Your employer does not have your best interest at heart. So share your info. Let your cheap ass company lose a lot of good workers and maybe....just maybe.. they'll quit playing these games.
There's an inherent problem there. Everyone thinks they're a superstar at their job, and so Joe isn't going to understand that Lenny makes more money than Joe does because Lenny is a rockstar who is better at the job than Joe is and Lenny is rightly paid more.Yes, and they should leave. That type of action forces companies to stop underpaying employees. That's exactly what I'd like to see happen. Employers have virtually no loyalty to employees, and employees should feel the same about there employers. Unless you're a superstar (and you know it -- and the 2 don't always go together), sharing info only helps you in your career. Your employer does not have your best interest at heart. So share your info. Let your cheap ass company lose a lot of good workers and maybe....just maybe.. they'll quit playing these games.
There's an inherent problem there. Everyone thinks they're a superstar at their job, and so Joe isn't going to understand that Lenny makes more money than Joe does because Lenny is a rockstar who is better at the job than Joe is and Lenny is rightly paid more.
It's like bad drivers. None of them think they're bad drivers.
I'm not saying the current situation is right or fair. I just said having everyone know what everyone else makes isn't ideal. The average employees will want the same money as the really good ones because they think they're just as good. If you pay the average ones the same as the good ones to make them happy, the really good ones will either become average pretty quick or leave.nilepez isn't wrong, I can't say he is wrong. I can say I don't think his "solution" is good for this kind of environment,( the environment I work in), because it's not a normal dynamic.
nilepez isn't wrong, I can't say he is wrong. I can say I don't think his "solution" is good for this kind of environment,( the environment I work in), because it's not a normal dynamic.
I don't think that's the case. If you think you're a superstar, you're likely to negotiate a great deal. IME, most people are more like Dilbert. Work hard and underappreciated. FWIW, I've never been under the illusion that I'm a rock star, and virtually nobody I work with past or present has an ego that big. And FYI, I've also worked with people who made more than a lead developer and did less than a junior developer. Paying people based on there EGO is dumb, but paying them based on there negotiating abilities is a recipe for pissing people off, because eventually employees talk about salaries.There's an inherent problem there. Everyone thinks they're a superstar at their job, and so Joe isn't going to understand that Lenny makes more money than Joe does because Lenny is a rockstar who is better at the job than Joe is and Lenny is rightly paid more.
It's like bad drivers. None of them think they're bad drivers.
You solve that by having different levels of programmers and telling the programmer, "John, you need to do this/improve that to get to that level. Right now, it's probably arbitrary. I've also seen bosses say, "Do A and you'll get X and you do A and B and then they say, can't do it this time. It's not that they can't do it, they just don't want to and if you don't know what others are getting, then there's no way to know that you're being played.I'm not saying the current situation is right or fair. I just said having everyone know what everyone else makes isn't ideal. The average employees will want the same money as the really good ones because they think they're just as good. If you pay the average ones the same as the good ones to make them happy, the really good ones will either become average pretty quick or leave.
With programming, generally an empty chair is better than a mediocre programmer. A few good programers will get more done by themselves than if you had them working along side with a team of 20 mediocre programmers because they won't be spending time fixing the mistakes and redoing the work of the mediocre ones.