try opening up media player classic, pressing O, go to the output tab, and setting "Directshow Video" to "VMR7 (windowed)". then open up the video/dvd again and it might work.
If not, then get VLC from http://www.videolan.org and go into the options and disable overlay. that should sort it out.
there is an option somewhere that should allow you to play video on the second display. You could also just set the tv as your primary display but that could cause problems.
ok i got the video workin on a horzontal display now the prob seems the the tv side is like 4 inches off on the top can it be fixed to make it even or am i gona have to prop the monitor up on something