P35 can not do SLI and as of yet, there is no official word on P45 at all and what it can or can't do. I seriously doubt SLI is going to be offered on it.
if you want Intel plus SLI you have to go with the D5400XS and at least one Xeon processor. .
I plan to go crossfire with a one or two cheap ATI 3870 as the ATI 4870 and 4870X2 have some awesome specs. So SLI is not an issue. Just was not sure what the difference between the upcoming X48 motherboards and P45 motherboards was. I was looking at the Gigabyte X48-DQ6 as it is DDR2. LGA 775 is soon over with Intel's next gen CPUs so DDR3 is not worth it now. Anyway, I've been waiting for the Q9450 to be released since Jan, 08. So as soon as I have it, I guess I would go with the X48 as I hear the P45 won't be out until mid year I hear.
P45 if I understand correctly does x8/x8 crossfire. Not sure that P45 really is bringing
anything new outside of PCIe 2.0 support over P35 (excluding the improved crossfire
support). The only area I can think of that would see noticable improvement is DDR3,
but I am not really sure that the P45 would be the first choice for a DDR3 setup anyway.