xhail said:Thanks for all the information... but I realized I can't go plasma. Actually, this tv is a gift for someone. This person plays video games, watches dvds, not really into many sports, but does watch alot of "regular" tv. If a tv pixel ratio is 16:9, that would mean that regular tv programs will have black bars on the side or they will have that stretched out look.. am I correct? And if it's a plasma, wouldn't those black bars cause burn-in?
I do think DLP is the way to go for you personally, but to answer your question about black bars and burn in - all 16:9 TVs have a stretch mode that stretches 4:3 content to fill the screen. A good example is Panasonics "Just" mode, which takes 16% from either side of the image and stretches it, so the overall image doesn't look stretched, but it fills the screen.
For 2.35:1 movies you still have bars on the top and bottom (and will with LCD, DLP whatever), but burn in is wildly overstated, and generally as long as you watch some things that aren't 2.35:1 films you'll never have an issue. I used to worry a lot about burn in, but then we got 64 plasma's at work and set them up to display static images cycled 6 times a day - they've been doing that for over 3 years now with no burn in.
But this is all a tangent. I really do think for your situation either LCD or DLP rear projection sounds like it will suit you best.