Oh - sorry w1retap, I agree with your other comments, this topic as a whole just had be too upset and I replied to your post too hastily.
Though, I think the person you replied to with the "feel free to move out" comment shouldn't be judged to hastily - I think it's excusable to say something like that when you're in a fit of rage, which, we all SHOULD be when we read something like this.
If you're an American, and you hear about crap like this and you DONT get upset when you read about it, you should be tar'd and feather'd. If someone said shit like "feel free to move out" in real life as if they better than someone else, i'd probably have a fat person sit on them, then say "if you dont like it, leave". Maybe then they'd get the point