It looks like an iPad per Apples description, that's all that matters since this is their lawsuit. In reality, knowing what is and isn't iPad is a test that nobody can fail because it's incredibly obvious that one has an Apple logo, runs a certain OS, and looks a certain way. Similar does not mean copied, especially when the market is saturated with similar designs (it is), and similar designs existed before the iPad even. So Samsung wanted it to be thinner to be more competitive, how does Apple own thickness? The concept of thinner/lighter has been around for far longer than Apple. They are defeating themselves with their own argument really, either similar is fine or it's not. If it's not, then Apple itself has already done exactly what they are suing for are hypocrites (big surprise).
Let's take this out of the realm of theoretical and place it firmly in reality. If I go to Best Buy or any electronic store to buy an iPad, am I going to have a hard time finding it on the shelf? Will I cry endless tears being surrounded by white boxes with tablet shapes on them and be unable to accomplish my goal of getting an iPad? Oh wait, this one says Apple right here. Oh look, it's also on the price tag. Oh hey, a store guy is also here to help me in case I am so literally retarded that I cannot figure out which is the iPad. Apples argument is a load of shit and no intelligent person can agree with it.
If you put an iPad and the Samsung tablet (or any of them all together) then you can tell immediately which is the iPad, unless you've never seen an iPad before. If that's the case then why the hell does it matter?!?!? If I don't ever WANT to have an iPad, why do I need to know what it looks like?!? If I DO want an iPad, then of course I will know what it looks like and have the brain slightly larger than the average animal that is required to read and know how to find something on a department shelf. Apple is in effect insulting our collective intelligence's here.
Find me how many people have taken home a Galaxy Tab and have opened it only to be surprised that it is in fact not the iPad that they were sure they were buying. You and I both know that's not going to happen. And even if it actually did happen on the rarest of occasions when our moon is aligned with a sacred tree in south America, no legislation can save such retards from themselves.
In conclusion, what gives Apple the right to dictate how anything can be marketed, sold, boxed, etc? Nothing unless it's a direct copy. And it's clearly not.
You are tossing out the entire point of the complaint and focusing on the section that's required to be a bare bones description. The new Tab looks a lot like the iPad. If they were turned off and you just saw the face of it or if they were turned on and you just saw the App Drawer open on the Tab, regular Joe users would be confused as to which is which, same goes for the box at first glance, before you read the words, same goes for the obvious homage of the icons in TouchWiz, so much so that Samsung is killing it off, the box design and tray setup in the way that it's being done here wasn't really done before Apple did it. It's not whether someone walks out of the store with it instead because they think are convinced it IS an iPad, it's that enough elements are alarmingly samey that it violates Trademark and or Trade Dress law. Samsung is trying to say, "Hey, you hate Apple without regard to logic, stop posting on the [H] forums for a sec and buy this because it's close enough to an iPad that you'll like it without having to buy from Apple!". Box: No tabs (no pun intended), no fold overs, a bottom with a tray underneath which the cords and manuals stacked and on top of that a plastic tray cradling the device and a top slightly larger that comes down over it. Together these things point to copying, as does the new design announced as a direct response to the iPad2. It's not about thickness, its about having re-designed your product such that it now looks a lot like the iPad (the others don't and saying the do beyond the basic shape, which isn't the point here, is intellectually dishonest), sold in a box like the iPad with a custom UI on top of Android that mimics iOS, is. Moto made the Xoom, HTC made the Flyer, BN made the nook -- none of these have these combined issues that lead to this lawsuit.