They have a category called "female protagonist" for whatever reason. I usually stay away from any games that cater to the nut jobs wanting this.
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They have a category called "female protagonist" for whatever reason. I usually stay away from any games that cater to the nut jobs wanting this.
boys rule, girls drool
Everyone has the right to complain. Some people just get more attention than others.
"I dont get games, I argue. Dont pass me the controller, Ill only embarrass myself. Its not my turf. Its not for me. Im a girl, ok?"
So, when someone tries to give you a shot, you play dumb and perpetuate the stereotype you so desperately hate enough to right an entire article about it.
Just because you don't see non-war games doesn't mean non-war/boy games exist.
This is equivalent of saying there's no good restaurants out there because all you see commercials for are big chain mediocre restaurants! You have to search for the really good shops, but they're there!
Yes, the communities can be brutal. You don't want to be part of it, then don't. You, the author talked about days on the DS - there was no "online community" there. Stop listening to what stupid boys say, and do what you like! Frankly, the only communities I game with are ones I know IRL. If I might go as far as "a friend/relative of a friend," but that's it, and only if the former is there as well. Most of my gameplay is single player anyways.
I too want to see more girls in gaming/tech/etc, but I don't see how you rid the obnoxious/abusive 11 year old boys from the mix. How do we raise strong girls who don't care what these idiots think? How do you censor every chat channel of this vulgarity?
These ideas are efforts to "cater" to the complaints girls have. But it doesn't change the fact "girl" games are out there. You just have to find them.
That's the one part I actually agree with the article. Gamers are incredibly arrogant in the sense of trying to separate casual gamers from hardcore gamers. You're not a gamer if you play Candy Crush, but you are a gamer if you play Grand Theft Auto.
... Blah Blah Blah
I think the difference here is that we're talking about young girls, not grown women. So, if my wife wanted to get into games, I'd expect an entirely different approach than if it was a 9 year old. A grown woman is going to do some basic research, read reviews, learn about genres, game types and match that to what she wants and enjoys.
Compare that to my daughter in 9 years... She's going to grow up in a house with a gaming dad, an older brother that will likely game, and a mother who could care less. Where does she look for input and recommendations? How do the advertisers reach her so she can be exposed to their products? Sure, she'll have friends to help a bit, but there's only so much I can do. I'd look at a game and say, "Look this one has ponies! You'll like it!" She'd be just as insulted (and rightly so) as I would be if someone handed me this box:
aand told me I'd like it because "die", "katana" and "hey look space marine people!"
The level of exposure and discourse in popular culture is completely different:
Boys' games: firehose.
Non--gendered (i.e., sports games): few and far between
Girls' games: Essentially zilch.
It's going to be a challenge I'm going to have to deal with, and I've got time (and maybe an entire console generation) to figure it out, but it's real.
I suspect this is what's going to happen:
Someone somewhere with a little business acumen is going to fund a girl's game studio and market it as such. They'll kickstart it for funding, hire a few developers and launch a game that will do well. It will be the proof of concept for EA/Activation to follow suit and the problem will be solved essentially overnight.
CAn't happen soon enough.
When it comes to gaming, however, I am bereft of such confidence. I shrug and sound very much like the dozens of women I have known who protest that their love of Raina Telgemeier and Archie Double Digests does not make them a real fan. I dont get games, I argue. Dont pass me the controller, Ill only embarrass myself. Its not my turf. Its not for me. Im a girl, ok?
Ok, nothing wrong with that.She wants to play games where women make the world beautiful, save the day, make friends, or romance boys.
There are plenty of games like this.She wants to play games without killing, without rape, without weaponry.
So she wants to be a gamer who doesn't spend money on hardware, or take the time to learn or read about the games she's playing? That doesn't even make sense.She wants to play games that dont assume you grew up on GameFAQS or have hundreds of dollars to shell out on hardware upgrades.
Oh, so she wants shovelware garbage. Well, there's tons of that too!She wants games on her phone. She wants game in her browser.
"But where there is a welcome mat rolled out for men, there is only a bloodied stretch of briar for women."
fuck off
I know I'm not going to stop seeing women falling out of their shirts advertising everything.
I think the difference here is that we're talking about young girls, not grown women. So, if my wife wanted to get into games, I'd expect an entirely different approach than if it was a 9 year old. A grown woman is going to do some basic research, read reviews, learn about genres, game types and match that to what she wants and enjoys.
Compare that to my daughter in 9 years... She's going to grow up in a house with a gaming dad, an older brother that will likely game, and a mother who could care less. Where does she look for input and recommendations? How do the advertisers reach her so she can be exposed to their products? Sure, she'll have friends to help a bit, but there's only so much I can do. I'd look at a game and say, "Look this one has ponies! You'll like it!" She'd be just as insulted (and rightly so) as I would be if someone handed me this box:
aand told me I'd like it because "die", "katana" and "hey look space marine people!"
The level of exposure and discourse in popular culture is completely different:
Boys' games: firehose.
Non--gendered (i.e., sports games): few and far between
Girls' games: Essentially zilch.
It's going to be a challenge I'm going to have to deal with, and I've got time (and maybe an entire console generation) to figure it out, but it's real.
I suspect this is what's going to happen:
Someone somewhere with a little business acumen is going to fund a girl's game studio and market it as such. They'll kickstart it for funding, hire a few developers and launch a game that will do well. It will be the proof of concept for EA/Activation to follow suit and the problem will be solved essentially overnight.
CAn't happen soon enough.
News flash man. Bethesda has been doing exactly this for over 20 years. Well almost exactly, they aim their games at both genders equally. Try Skyrim or Fallout 3 on for size if you haven't.
This isn't new, these women claim a situation exists when in fact it does not exist at all. I'm a gamer, both my daughters are gamers. Guess what, the youngest was nutz for building games, played some Egyptian city building game forever. These days she's into League of Legends mostly.
The oldest, she's competitive and plays you guessed it, COD. She is slim, young, half Asian, and she'll kick your ass in a shooter. She streams herself live and is building a following. She says she thinks it's cause the guys get off on a decent looking chick that loves what they love and isn't afraid to deal with the occasional asshole that get's out of line.
The world is what it is and people are what they are. It's time these crusaders get real.
Not stated, but implied: "she wants video games to not cost her much in the way of time, technology or out of pocket expenditures".
And thats a bad thing because...........?
Did I ever say it was a BAD THING?
No, I believe I was clear that repetitive use of ancient tropes gets old fast.
Boobs once = good. Boobs twice = still good, but maybe try something new?
Boobs #56778895654 = GTFO.
Like, she is straight up saying ladies can't play street fighter, because their gender is physically incapable of hadukening...
Like, she is straight up saying ladies can't play street fighter, because their gender is physically incapable of hadukening...
Gets old fast, yet it doesn't seem to have gotten old considering how ancient some of those tropes may be. I hate to break it to ya, but there isn't much that can replace boobs with regards to marketing.
Oh hey!
I get it now. Being a man it frequently takes me some time to warp my brain around reality in regards to women.
In this case I am surprised we didn't hit on this conclusion earlier.
As usual, the author doesn't really expect us to fix this situation. She only wants us to read the article and understand how she feels.
Don't worry, she'll feel different about the whole thing later and those of us who listened and made supportive sounds like "hmmmm and yeaaaa" are to be commended for our sensible and mature capacity for compasion.
Guys, we don't have to fix everything. Sometimes all we have to do is let them say the crazy shit and not give them a hard time over it
Guys, we don't have to fix everything. Sometimes all we have to do is let them say the crazy shit and not give them a hard time over it
And while I'm at it, which games are full of rape?
My wife hates video games.
My wife pretended to like video games while we were dating so we could hang out (She did like Burnout on the Xbox, where you could play Crash Party mode). As soon as we were married, the facade fell..
My wife pretended to like video games while we were dating so we could hang out (She did like Burnout on the Xbox, where you could play Crash Party mode). As soon as we were married, the facade fell..
The secret to a long marriage right there.
Even if you were to come up with a strong argument to this article, or even a full blown solution, it would still be a problem. :/
My wife pretended to like video games while we were dating so we could hang out (She did like Burnout on the Xbox, where you could play Crash Party mode). As soon as we were married, the facade fell..
32 years just a few days ago.
No really, I am serious about this. Women don't always want a solution or for a guy to fix it. Sometimes they just want you to listen and I think, try to understand how they are feeling or how something is effecting them.
If you can accept that, then it's not that great a stretch to imagine women expressing themselves in the same manner online and in writing.