Spare-Flair
Supreme [H]ardness
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I have a friend who's been married for 10 months. He 28 years old, living in his mother's basement with his wife, and he's addicted to an MMO. He has an education degree from university but doesn't want to be a teacher and now has a dead-end $16/hour job at a call center and it's affecting his life, his friends, and his family.
According to my calculations and his online World of Tanks profile, he's spent 1736.25 hours or 72 entire days of the past 195 days of his life playing or 8.9 hours/17 waking hours (assuming 7 hours of sleep) a day in that game.
Basically he's spent over 50% of his entire waking life for almost the past year playing this game. Do you guys have any friends who are addicted to gaming? We all want to help him but he won't help himself. I've confronted him with the fact that over half of his life has been spent in this game but he says he finds little pleasure in anything else in life.
We wanted to have some kind of intervention because this is concerning to all his friends and family. Almost 9 hours a day is spent playing this game and we are all very concerned but nothing seems to budge or change him. His wife would be the logical one to apply pressure but she is a traditional wife (the kind you almost don't find anymore) and permits this activity because she supports what makes her husband happy (yeah, I know deep down we all want to marry a girl like this, but I think she needs to be a little more proactive).
Do you guys have any other stories about people you know who are addicted to games and have had their lives fall apart or have escaped and changed? What can be done? I'm reminded of the Kotaku Everquest addiction article but none of the factors that motivated that guy will seem to work here. http://kotaku.com/5384643/i-kept-playing--the-costs-of-my-gaming-addiction
Many of us are gamers here so we can all relate to how something like this can be addictive but I need some advice on how to get someone to stop and look around at some healthier options and moderation, if not for himself, then for his family.
According to my calculations and his online World of Tanks profile, he's spent 1736.25 hours or 72 entire days of the past 195 days of his life playing or 8.9 hours/17 waking hours (assuming 7 hours of sleep) a day in that game.
Basically he's spent over 50% of his entire waking life for almost the past year playing this game. Do you guys have any friends who are addicted to gaming? We all want to help him but he won't help himself. I've confronted him with the fact that over half of his life has been spent in this game but he says he finds little pleasure in anything else in life.
We wanted to have some kind of intervention because this is concerning to all his friends and family. Almost 9 hours a day is spent playing this game and we are all very concerned but nothing seems to budge or change him. His wife would be the logical one to apply pressure but she is a traditional wife (the kind you almost don't find anymore) and permits this activity because she supports what makes her husband happy (yeah, I know deep down we all want to marry a girl like this, but I think she needs to be a little more proactive).
Do you guys have any other stories about people you know who are addicted to games and have had their lives fall apart or have escaped and changed? What can be done? I'm reminded of the Kotaku Everquest addiction article but none of the factors that motivated that guy will seem to work here. http://kotaku.com/5384643/i-kept-playing--the-costs-of-my-gaming-addiction
Many of us are gamers here so we can all relate to how something like this can be addictive but I need some advice on how to get someone to stop and look around at some healthier options and moderation, if not for himself, then for his family.
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