No. Her 12 year old child... doused herself in alcohol and lit herself on fire. This is not stupidity/chance, like playing with a gun or playing with matches and setting house on fire. She intentionally doused herself in alcohol and lit herself on fire... This is definitely something the parent could have done something about or been aware of. There was definitely something else wrong that allowed this to happen. This was no sad accident. Twelve year olds do not douse themselves in alcohol and light themselves on fire. (Your point is definitely valid for normal stupid shit that can happen).