After reading this review, I think you will understand why I'm asking you to try calibrating in custom color mode with 0 brightness even though that OSD setting doesn't get you close to your desired target luminance. Until I came across this review, I suspected that the problem was the DataColor calibration software (comes with the Spyder3) ... and now I have confirmation!
But wont the results be exactly the same with '6500K-sRGB' and 'Custom Color' mode if i don't touch the RGB controls in custom color mode?
Or hm.. using Custom Color mode with it's defaults (RGB sliders at max) means that i am using the native whitepoint of my screen? And in 6500K-sRGB mode the RGB controls gets adjusted automatically?
But if i use Custom color mode+RGB sliders at max and i decrease the brightness with software, that doesn't affect the whitepoint?