windianrecords
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A forum member is buying a GPU from me, and because of G&S versus F&F, it looks like PayPal is holding my money until the product is delivered? Has anyone seen this before?

Interesting, glad to hear someone’s seen this before and its not like a per-account thing… its pretty annoying that delivery has to occur, though. What if a buyer scams you, says no arrival. Seems like you’d never see those funds.Yes, over a certain amount they will hold on to it until tracking info (and sometimes more) is provided, with G&S.
Interesting, glad to hear someone’s seen this before and its not like a per-account thing… its pretty annoying that delivery has to occur, though. What if a buyer scams you, says no arrival. Seems like you’d never see those funds.
And also only sell to people with good feedback or long-time member, and buy shipping insurance for high-value items.Interesting, glad to hear someone’s seen this before and its not like a per-account thing… its pretty annoying that delivery has to occur, though. What if a buyer scams you, says no arrival. Seems like you’d never see those funds.
Yep, this has been my experience as well. Paypal's fraud prevention algorithm is a real mystery - I've had funds held for low value items at times, but not high value. Then there was the time they randomly closed my account, refused to explain why except to say 'suspicious activity', and would not reopen it. I only used it for Ebay, and nothing else. I had about $300 held for months before they mailed a check. I immediately made a new account and have used it for years without issue, just never for Ebay. Crazy right?They hold my G&S regardless of amount. PayPal's fraud prevention decision-making system is some sort of black-box and different accounts get different holds and limits. There is that list of conditions but once the "our computer decided something might possibly be sus" catch-all is in play they can kinda just do whatever they feel like.
I did that for a Craigslist GPU sale this spring. Buyer paid G&S and PP put it on 21-day hold. Buyer offered another payment method so I refunded the PP and the money ended up taking like a friggin week to get back to the guy, totally ridiculous. Fortunately it was only $50 and he was nice about it but wtf PayPal.When this happens, are you able to refund the held money, to at least clear the hold, and give the buyer their money back? I can't remember this happening to me, even when I've sold GPUs but those were G&S payments.
If this happened to me for any reason, I'd refund ASAP (I presume they'd let you). I don't factor the cost of held money into my prices. This kinda thing is why PayPal is my least favorite payment option and people should seriously consider non-PayPal, non-Venmo options like Google Wallet, Cash App, or Square (if you want CC/payment protection).
Yeah they've been getting worse and worse about treating different accounts differently depending on off-the-books criteria that are covered by vague ToS clauses. I've also been using PP for the better part of 20 years but my "cred" with PP must somehow not be as good as yours lolI've used them for probably 20 or so years and never had a payment held. That's really weird.
I'll have to look into other payment options soon... I also don't like the 180 day free returns policy. I just basically stopped selling stuff for the past couple of years due to Ebay being risky, and PayPal allowing 180 day returns, plus horror stories on them.Yeah they've been getting worse and worse about treating different accounts differently depending on off-the-books criteria that are covered by vague ToS clauses. I've also been using PP for the better part of 20 years but my "cred" with PP must somehow not be as good as yours lol
IIRC it was around 2015 when they started holding my receipts and the duration keeps getting longer. But like I said earlier in the thread, their decision-making system is such a black box that it can be difficult for users to actually know why they're getting double-standard-ed and CS reps will just say "the ToS allows us to hold your money up to X days" and dodge clarifying questions
Yeah same honestly. Anymore I do local/regional only- Craiglist, whatever apps are in fad (has OfferUp died yet? I can't keep track), and lately, FB Marketplace. The texting back and forth and negotiating thing is work, but it's nice to get that cash right in hand and almost never deal with shipping. Ppl talk smack, but 15 years of Craigslist reselling and I've never had a scary IRL experience and the scammers are fairly predictable. Never gotten burned as a local buyer either. Whereas PayPal + eBay have caused consistent inconvenience and stress with all their "protections"I'll have to look into other payment options soon... I also don't like the 180 day free returns policy. I just basically stopped selling stuff for the past couple of years due to Ebay being risky, and PayPal allowing 180 day returns, plus horror stories on them.
OfferUp is really good, especially if you deal with other people with good seller/buyer ratings; even my old man is a regular on OfferUp selling/buying auto stuff.Yeah same honestly. Anymore I do local/regional only- Craiglist, whatever apps are in fad (has OfferUp died yet? I can't keep track), and lately, FB Marketplace. The texting back and forth and negotiating thing is work, but it's nice to get that cash right in hand and almost never deal with shipping. Ppl talk smack, but 15 years of Craigslist reselling and I've never had a scary IRL experience and the scammers are fairly predictable. Never gotten burned as a local buyer either. Whereas PayPal + eBay have caused consistent inconvenience and stress with all their "protections"![]()
Cool, thanx for the tip, maybe I'll try putting some listings on there again.OfferUp is really good, especially if you deal with other people with good seller/buyer ratings; even my old man is a regular on OfferUp selling/buying auto stuff.
That's because CC chargeback can be filed up to 6 months after transaction date, for most CC companies. PP just matches that.I'll have to look into other payment options soon... I also don't like the 180 day free returns policy. I just basically stopped selling stuff for the past couple of years due to Ebay being risky, and PayPal allowing 180 day returns, plus horror stories on them.