Everything I've heard about Amazon Payments, is that nobody gets any protection unless it's on the Amazon.com website. In other words... you're quite possibly screwed if you give him money.
Particularly since the seller contacted you by PM. You don't say, but I'm guessing he doesn't have an FS/T thread?
To be fair, I've done biz by PM myself... but when I've done that I've also had an FS/T thread up here and I usually (far as I recall) make it quite clear that I'm offering up something that's also in my thread and include a link to that thread as well. On the occasion when I'm PMing someone about something /not/ in my FS/T thread, it's always been something fit only for the Perpetual Freebies Thread.
Make sure the guy has Heat, and good Heat at that (it should have recent stuff in it and few if ANY negatives that are all very old -- check the dates, Heatware puts 'em at the top -- that tripped me up once). Make sure he's cool with you emailing him at the address in the Heat account. If he says "oh I closed that here's a different one" chances are it's BS and a scam. If he gets all indignant about showing you Heat, back out. If he says "oh all I have is eBay and here it is" back out. eBay feedback barely means anything around here, and for a number of particularly good reasons.
Make sure he's cool with Paypal. Paypal you get 45 days to start yelling if something's fishy. Amazon you get nothing. Regarding shipping... Priority Mail is rarely more than 3 days (it happens, but it's very unusual). For sure, five days and it didn't show is bad news. First Class Pkg shouldn't be used here, but if it is... 7 days and no card means something's up. Both services now come with tracking automatically IIRC -- make sure your seller gives it to you. Use it. If after two days all it says is "Electronic Shipping Info Received" that's not good -- if it errors out ("Delivery Confirmation is not available via this website..." in red type) that's really bad, it means he never even printed a label and just gave you something that /looks/ like tracking (but isn't). FedEx and UPS usually means what they call Ground services, their lowest priority (and cheapest) service... figure 7-10 days, and no package at that point means bad stuff.
Tracking numbers... a USPS tracking # will be five groups of four digits, then a pair of digits. For Priority Mail, I can't remember the last time it didn't start with 9405. So 9405 0000 0000 0000 0000 00. If he gives it to you all in a lump (no spaces) space it out and make sure it fits the pattern. A UPS tracking # has no spaces, starts with 1Z, and is 18 digits long (including the 1Z) unless I can't count. So 1Z0000000000000000. FedEx I don't know 'cause I've not seen it in too long. My spam bin is FULL of fake tracking numbers... I can spot 'em fast 'cause I know what to look for and the spammers don't.
Lastly, the moment you suspect something is up... FILE A CLAIM. Assuming you were smart and used Paypal. (Again, Amazon will not protect you unless the deal was done on their website -- which means this one won't be covered.) DO NOT WAIT. That's important. A month and a half (or so) will go by FAST. Put it off, you'll forget, and then it'll be too late. You get 45 days with Paypal. No shipping method currently known to man (except USPS First Class International going OUT of the US, and a rare few of the slower shipping methods from HK/China/etc to the US on eBay) takes more than ten days. If you haven't gotten your package in ten days, file a claim that day. Or, if you used Amazon, cry loudly since your scammer just got free money.
I hope that helps.
Particularly since the seller contacted you by PM. You don't say, but I'm guessing he doesn't have an FS/T thread?
To be fair, I've done biz by PM myself... but when I've done that I've also had an FS/T thread up here and I usually (far as I recall) make it quite clear that I'm offering up something that's also in my thread and include a link to that thread as well. On the occasion when I'm PMing someone about something /not/ in my FS/T thread, it's always been something fit only for the Perpetual Freebies Thread.
Make sure the guy has Heat, and good Heat at that (it should have recent stuff in it and few if ANY negatives that are all very old -- check the dates, Heatware puts 'em at the top -- that tripped me up once). Make sure he's cool with you emailing him at the address in the Heat account. If he says "oh I closed that here's a different one" chances are it's BS and a scam. If he gets all indignant about showing you Heat, back out. If he says "oh all I have is eBay and here it is" back out. eBay feedback barely means anything around here, and for a number of particularly good reasons.
Make sure he's cool with Paypal. Paypal you get 45 days to start yelling if something's fishy. Amazon you get nothing. Regarding shipping... Priority Mail is rarely more than 3 days (it happens, but it's very unusual). For sure, five days and it didn't show is bad news. First Class Pkg shouldn't be used here, but if it is... 7 days and no card means something's up. Both services now come with tracking automatically IIRC -- make sure your seller gives it to you. Use it. If after two days all it says is "Electronic Shipping Info Received" that's not good -- if it errors out ("Delivery Confirmation is not available via this website..." in red type) that's really bad, it means he never even printed a label and just gave you something that /looks/ like tracking (but isn't). FedEx and UPS usually means what they call Ground services, their lowest priority (and cheapest) service... figure 7-10 days, and no package at that point means bad stuff.
Tracking numbers... a USPS tracking # will be five groups of four digits, then a pair of digits. For Priority Mail, I can't remember the last time it didn't start with 9405. So 9405 0000 0000 0000 0000 00. If he gives it to you all in a lump (no spaces) space it out and make sure it fits the pattern. A UPS tracking # has no spaces, starts with 1Z, and is 18 digits long (including the 1Z) unless I can't count. So 1Z0000000000000000. FedEx I don't know 'cause I've not seen it in too long. My spam bin is FULL of fake tracking numbers... I can spot 'em fast 'cause I know what to look for and the spammers don't.
Lastly, the moment you suspect something is up... FILE A CLAIM. Assuming you were smart and used Paypal. (Again, Amazon will not protect you unless the deal was done on their website -- which means this one won't be covered.) DO NOT WAIT. That's important. A month and a half (or so) will go by FAST. Put it off, you'll forget, and then it'll be too late. You get 45 days with Paypal. No shipping method currently known to man (except USPS First Class International going OUT of the US, and a rare few of the slower shipping methods from HK/China/etc to the US on eBay) takes more than ten days. If you haven't gotten your package in ten days, file a claim that day. Or, if you used Amazon, cry loudly since your scammer just got free money.
I hope that helps.