You could get the E3-1230 v3 . It comes with Hyperthreading, uses less watts, slightly faster but costs a little bit more.
I opted for the X10SLL+-F I wanted to put in the IBM ServeRAID M1015 flashed to IT mode.
If you need more network ports, This works pretty well. SILICON PEG6I-RoHS SIX...
I have almost exactly the same setup.
I have 4x KVR16E11/8I in the same motherboard. It works well.
Kingston 8GB 240-Pin DDR3 1600 ECC Unbuffered w/TS Intel Model KVR16E11/8I
I have been lurking around these forums researching the best home setup for my use. I currently have a poweredge 2950v1 2x 160gb raid 1, 4x 2TB raid 5. I have 3 vmdk's setup on the data raid and I would like to get rid of them for my storage.
Vm's that I run:
pfSense (router)
windows 2012...