I did a trade with someone where I shipped first. I was fine with that and wanted to make sure they were happy with the items shipped. I paid for 2-day shipping and they got the items on 2/20 and seemed happy. They were going to ship out the next day. First they didn't have my address, so I put it in the forum. Then I waited a few days and messaged when nothing showed up. They apologized and told me there was a family health issue but they would get it out that day. I told them I understood and was in no rush just to get it out when they could. A few more days have gone by and nothing. I got another message saying they were really sorry and I could leave them bad heat but they were still dealing with the health issue. Again I told them I understood, family was important and just ship when they could.
The last communication I got from them was on the 26th swearing they would ship that morning and apologizing again. I have since left two messages asking if the relative was doing better and if they were able to ship. Once on last wed and one more again this last saturday. The thing is I know he was in the forums on Thursday after my first message and again this morning (in fact he is online right now). I hate to think bad of a fellow [H] and I have NEVER been burned by one but...I am starting to think I have been. So the question is, if something comes up, how long do you wait before you start to think you got taken? I have messaged him one more time asking if he could please let me know what is going on that would be great...if not what do I do?
The last communication I got from them was on the 26th swearing they would ship that morning and apologizing again. I have since left two messages asking if the relative was doing better and if they were able to ship. Once on last wed and one more again this last saturday. The thing is I know he was in the forums on Thursday after my first message and again this morning (in fact he is online right now). I hate to think bad of a fellow [H] and I have NEVER been burned by one but...I am starting to think I have been. So the question is, if something comes up, how long do you wait before you start to think you got taken? I have messaged him one more time asking if he could please let me know what is going on that would be great...if not what do I do?