I smoke. I drink about a sixer or two a week. I'm a full time college student. I work two jobs. I receive a very small food stamp allowance. I have three children. My wife works. I pay a mortgage. It's a ten year mortgage because I got it when I made more money. I haven't bought tobacco in almost two years because I stock piled. If I didn't get food stamps because of drinking beer I'd not drink any beer because the $12 a week or less doesn't compare to the money I get from food stamps. I don't go to the movies or have netflix or anything like that. When I'm not at school, or working I'm with my family. I don't think I need to take classes on budgeting but I would if everyone else had to. I live with next to nothing. Honestly my ISP bill is my greatest expense since we commute by bicycle, grow/pickle as much food as we can, don't really heat the house and it's super insulated and just basically just live simply because we think it's the right thing to do and it makes us happier people.
Congratulations on your new child. Children are one of the greatest blessings I've ever had and I wish the same for you. Also congratulations on having a wife who you can work with. Children are a great joy but having a wife you work well with is, in my opinion, one of the greatest miracles the world has ever produced. Take the lessons you are learning in frugality and never forget them, even if you make a fortune in the future.
you planned ahead and likely roll to save cash.. I live in low end apartments so I look all around and I'd bet 90% of the people here are on food stamps. It makes me sick watching people step outside every 20 minutes all over the place smoking and I never see them going to work and they have their kids running all over unattended.
I live in michigan so the weather hasn't been nice enough to ride my bike the 8.5miles each way to school yet but I'm ready to do it as soon as the weather lines up. Obviously I'd rather drive but to save the cash I need to bike!
My wife is absolutely the best. We made the choice where I could either make basically what childcare will cost working a shitty job with no degree OR living poor and cheaply for a while. I've been taking CLEP tests and doing all I can to speed things up. I'm about to start my summer semester with 20 credits on the books. I'm probably dropping to 17 so I can work on testing out of classes. I have to go take IC3 exams on friday. Hopefully I've read through enough. It sounds like they ask obscure stuff at times.
Basically my previous rant was watching 40 kids play on a playground I can see with only 2 parents actually with their kids (my wife being 1).
I drink every chance I get but its like monthly these days instead of weekly like I used to. I reward myself when I turn in pop cans LOL I'm down to 1 dew a day.