Everyone's situation is different.
My typical workday has me busting my ass all morning and day, and because I have a long commute, I'm usually not home before at least 7pm.
Once I get home, fiance has usually made dinner. We eat, and then spend the next hour or so debating and arguing with my stepson to finish his food.
After this there is an hour of twisting the stepsons arm to finish the homework he should have finished before I got home. Sometimes there is about 30minutes of time for some fun family time before his bedtime, sometimes not.
Next, I spend 30min to an hour cleaning up the kitchen, clearing the table and doing the dishes. Fiance cooked, I clean. Only fair.
So, now it's 10pm. I can choose to spend an hour or two unwinding watching something on TV with my Fiance or Gaming. Usually I spend time with th efiance, because I don't want to be anti-social and retreat to the office and game alone leaving her there alone.
Occasionally she will go to bed early, and I'll stay up a couple of hours and play a game, but it is becoming more and more rare.
I never sleep enough during the week, so on weekends I sleep in. I probably roll out of bed at about noon most days. Take my sweet ass time getting showered and dressed and walking to Dunkin for a coffee and a bagel. About now it's usually time for yard work. Lawn and hedge in the spring and summer, leaves in the fall, snow and ice removal in the winter.
There is also time spent tinkering on various other projects, (servers, VM's upgrades, repairs, etc.) On weekends when my stepson is with us, we try to fit in some family time. (I chased him 7 miles on his bike a couple of weeks ago while I was on foot. Just a little walk ) On weekends he isn't with us there are often social commitments or dinner out with the fiance, and maybe a movie. Again, I usually feel guilty retreating to games on the computer when she is around.
So, my gaming time is usually restricted to when she goes to bed before me, or when she gets a call to work on nights or weekends (which happens, as she is an on-call medical interpreter)
Based on this, I's say I average about 2-3 hours every other week or so in games, MUCH less than I once did when I was young and single. Sometimes I miss having more alone/game time and time with my old friends, but I'm fine with it. Family comes first!
I like you more and more all the time Z.
Kids are out of the house, wife at work or comes home tired and needs to decompress and doesn't want me hanging on her, you get this. If I didn't game, I could volunteer at the Y or something. Mostly I look forward to a future where the wife and I aren't working disjointed schedules and we have much more time together, maybe our kids want us around some too. A chance after retirement to build a different life then the one we live now. Hopes and dreams are great, but the life you live today is the best chance you have to make it happy and worth while.
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