Teacher’s Aide Fired For Not Handing Over Facebook Password

Yeah .... parents caring about their children .... Administrates in charge of safe guarding those children and acting on their behalf .... your right, nothing serious at all about that. Nothing logical about the password request. Makes zero sense.

I had you going? Hell, me thinking I could have a common sense driven conversion here, that had me going. LOL.

The Nintendo Heads = 1 Real World = 0

mmm, it's a low blow to get on someone for grammar inside forums but if you want to take the high-road in a discussion about ethics you might try showing a competency at grade school grammar.
 
ITT: People that defend this shit who either a) don't have kids or b) don't want to have to take personal responsibility for paying attention to what their kids do.
 
Explain to all the parents out there how this is "wrong on so many levels?" In fact, not just the parents but why don't you contact Republican Assemblywoman Kristin Olsen and ask her about her bill and the meaning behind it or maybe even Jordan Power's Mother? You don't have the first clue about the real world.

No is asking you for your Xbox Live Gold Account Password here lolz, so relax.

This is about .. real shit.

I'm not picking sides. I'm just saying, when it comes to protecting Children, which I'm all about, I understand. Apparently, you're ok with taking a chance with the occasional pos scum "grooming" some child in middle school or high school. Yes, social websites is apart of this grooming process. After all this is what this is all about. I'm not sure what's so hard to understand about that and why you don't share my zero tolerance attitude toward this type of behavior, even if it means given up a crappy password to crappy Facebook. Seriously, let's put things into proper context here. What has the real value here?

The will being of a child or .... freaking farmville?

Your argument is highly flawed and specious. Look up "Straw Man Fallacy" as well as "Slippery Slope."

You are saying to not allow the privacy of teachers (or presumably anyone who works with children) to be violated then we, the advocates of privacy are supporting pedophilia.

Get over yourself this is not the same thing.

Under that same excuse, the protection of "X" we must allow "Y" anything can be justified and the rule of law falls.
 
And if the teacher is guilty in a court of law, they should be fired, their pension forfeit, and they should send a lot of time jail.

FYP.

The court of public opinion is already judge, jury, and executioner. One false allegation can ruin a teacher's career permanently, even if it was all fabricated.
 
LastQuestion, spelling and grammar police. Took you long enough to pull me over
 
First of all, it's not "my world" If you want to know exactly who's world we are talking about, turn on CNN. That's who this is all about. Those parents are fighting mad about this type of behavior. And I promise you, they won't be as nice to you as I've been. Come at them with your Cool Ranch Dorito breath, Bawlz energy drink in one hand and a Xbox controller in the other talking about your opinions and they will stomp your asses right back into that gaming chair you stood up from, trust me on that.

Someone's all riled up.

I'm not usually a person to take the giant stand on how everything is invasive of our privacy, because lets face it - our society is changing. But I think anyone has to look at this type of action as general practice and wonder where the lines are.
 
Look guy there's a big divide between caring about the well being of children and taking rational measures to ensure it. Blanket requesting private information of employees (that would take a court order for a law enforcement agency btw) is not a reasonable measure. It's pretty outrageous actually.

In your view, shouldn't the school district also request bank account passwords in case the teachers are taking their students out for dinner and a movie?

I think all communications, records, even personal conversations of all federal, state, and local governmental employees should be searched and posted to an open web page.

After all we have caught congressmen (republican, right?) molesting under age boys, thus all employees of our government are suspect.

Right? No?!?
 
I think all communications, records, even personal conversations of all federal, state, and local governmental employees should be searched and posted to an open web page.

After all we have caught congressmen (republican, right?) molesting under age boys, thus all employees of our government are suspect.

Right? No?!?

Sound logic.
 
I love this thread so much!!! It always amazes me when people who want to wrap themselves up in the various trappings of "dur, don't let teh turrists win" or "think of the children" like it some some sort of security blanket. As I get older, I am coming across more and more of these idiots in the workplace who not only think it is ok to speak about their ignorance as so much breakroom conversation but they actually hold it up as a point of pride.

They always look at me in horror when I point out that pedophiles, murderers and rapists don't care about the law: that is what makes them criminals. It doesn't matter how much you legislate, ask for passwords and run background checks, hide behind your HOA fees and gates or how much you want to protect your little ball of innocence and sunshine... tragedy will find a way into your life. That is alot of what life is and the sooner people deal with that reality, the better.
 
That's a good point you raise and an important one. Before Facebook, i.e., before these types of advancements in social technology, this type of predatory behavior by rogue teachers often went unchecked and for for how long? Decades. Most teachers, people in society are good people. And sure, I think the password request is the wrong way to go about this, but I understand why they are doing it. If anything, they now have a dialog on the subject. And sure, people are going to be upset. Case in point, this thread. Eventually, some good will come out of this, hopefully.

The problem is, it wont. You wouldn't you write on your profile you like licking spilt milk off the kitchen floor while dressed as a cat, because you know it's not socially acceptible. Most people have a darker side, but not many show theirs openly or discuss stuff they know will get them in trouble. Especially if they know it's being watched.

So what conceivable benifits are going to happen from this? None. It's just a parade to make people feel safer by doing the easiest thing they can think of. Which is a pretty stupid option as it neither deals with the source or giving any actual safety. It might make people feel safer, so they do less as everything is "being monitored", causing more of a problem. "The teacher did bad things!?!? How did this happen!?! We had their facebook page and they never mentioned abusing children!!!".

To deal with a problem you need to understand why it happens. As this kind of problem predates facebook, and the internet it's silly to think the solution is anything to do with it. The easy route usually gains the least ground.
 
"Sorry, I'm a professional. I don't use Facebook. Here's the login to my [empty] LinkedIn profile"

*Change FB to unsearchable. Change FB name to something silly and random like everyone else is doing these days... Such as Big Diesel Dan. And profit*
 
They have the same thing here where I'm at and the teachers just gave them secondary accounts.

The reason why schools ask for this information is to make sure there are no teacher / student relationships going on. And the stance the school districts feel they have to take is one where they are forced to assume the worse rather than to not act and have a teacher in a relationship with a student. Remember, this is not just HS, this is middle school as well.

There are two sides to everything. I'm all for privacy but, I can only assume that all the parents out there want to know factually that the teachers are not dating their sons or daughters. I am sure we can all agree that's a valid concern.

So it's basically, give us your password, or, we will assume the worst ( your dating a student ) and we will can your ass. And that's what happened.

What amazes me is that a person would rather put their job on the line rather than lie about something that is clearly an invasion of privacy. If you know you are in the right, then lie to protect yourself. If you like dating your students, then, do the right thing, police your own actions and hand over your password.

It's pretty simple

It's sad that you are complacent when your rights and the rights of others are being slowly eroded in the name "think of the children".

Too many events in history have shown such complacency to be detrimental to the health of society in general. This is exactly how Hitler, Lenin and many other key players in some of the most tragic points in history started off. Knowing this... every time I see this bulllshit propaganda being blindly lapped up by lazy parents (in the guise of a fervent zealot of the children)...I have to shake my head in disbelief.

From the moment of conception, the child becomes the responsibility of the parent... not the village. You cannot expect others (read: strangers) to shoulder that burden.

Every person who has spoken out against your (what I thought was a lighthearted trolling attempt) post has good reason to do so. Thankfully, there are still enough sane people who won't sit idly by while others are punished to guard the perceived welfare of your children and the children of others.
 
Sounds more like you are out of the loop because YOU refused to use the method of communication that everyone else in your family uses.

Don't blame them for not wanting to have to make extra effort just because YOU didn't want to use Facebook.

are you serious? so all of our lives, we have communicated by phone or email or you know...in person....but suddenly along comes Facebook, a way to live your life for the world to see. Obviously not for everyone, and nobody should be passively forced to live that way either.

so i do it for a little while, but day after day all i get is people's dumb ass opinions on what a piece of furniture looks like or what they had for dinner or what their fart smelled like....and in exchange for all of this important to the minute status updates I have to allow myself to be exposed....which is not okay with me.....and i think it's a bit voyeuristic to be honest.

so eventually I am like, screw this, Facebook is nothing but a marketing companies playground and a way for anyone to know more about me than they need to, or else I lock it all down and then it is pretty much pointless

and so because my siblings have decided to live their lives on the outside, and i chose not to, I am the one who is somehow in the wrong? are you fucking retarded? your own family cannot be bothered with picking up a phone to say hey you have a new niece? suddenly they can't be bothered to even contact anyone directly, they have to broadcast it across the "twittofacebookosphere"

do you realize how impersonal, and plain rude that is? obviously not. it's like the complacent people today who drive along in the left lane of the highway, blocking faster traffic, because they can't be bothered to actually pay attention to driving, they are too busy talking on the phone....in their own little bubble, fuck everyone else.....

todays society is a god damn greaseball of shit. nobody has self respect anymore and it shows
 
I'd gladly quit any job where the company demands my Facebook password. Why the FUCK would any company need that password? There's no excuse for this bullshit.
 
AMERICA! Fuck you.

Thats the smartest reply ever...NOT.

This has nothing to do with America...it's all about liberal union fags who think they own their employees.

As well, I happen to like America, maybe you should stay out of America and see how much better life is in other countries.
 
The reason why schools ask for this information is to make sure there are no teacher / student relationships going on.

And that is a valid reason to violate a persons privacy? So you don't mind giving us a key to your house do you, we want to be sure you are not doing illegal drugs in there either. You know...just to be sure.
 
Yeah, not cool at all......I hope she sues and wins....then hopefully this alarming trend will stop
 
are you serious? so all of our lives, we have communicated by phone or email or you know...in person....but suddenly along comes Facebook, a way to live your life for the world to see. Obviously not for everyone, and nobody should be passively forced to live that way either.

so i do it for a little while, but day after day all i get is people's dumb ass opinions on what a piece of furniture looks like or what they had for dinner or what their fart smelled like....and in exchange for all of this important to the minute status updates I have to allow myself to be exposed....which is not okay with me.....and i think it's a bit voyeuristic to be honest.

so eventually I am like, screw this, Facebook is nothing but a marketing companies playground and a way for anyone to know more about me than they need to, or else I lock it all down and then it is pretty much pointless

and so because my siblings have decided to live their lives on the outside, and i chose not to, I am the one who is somehow in the wrong? are you fucking retarded? your own family cannot be bothered with picking up a phone to say hey you have a new niece? suddenly they can't be bothered to even contact anyone directly, they have to broadcast it across the "twittofacebookosphere"

do you realize how impersonal, and plain rude that is? obviously not. it's like the complacent people today who drive along in the left lane of the highway, blocking faster traffic, because they can't be bothered to actually pay attention to driving, they are too busy talking on the phone....in their own little bubble, fuck everyone else.....

todays society is a god damn greaseball of shit. nobody has self respect anymore and it shows

I think you missed the point. I have a facebook account with a lot of real life friends on it, I never go reading through the wall of crap people post, but if someone sends out a group invite or a personal message, it's there for me to read.

It's simply an efficient way of organising groups. Most people I know use it to give out invites. A couple of people have set up groups for alumni for my old race team, so I'm keeping in touch with the old guys who otherwise I probably would have never seen again in my life. My photographer friends post their work on it occasionally, so every now and then I'll check what new photos they've uploaded.

People assume if you're using facebook you have to be wasting 2 hours a day reading everyone's updates and commenting on what you ate for breakfast or some shit. That's not the way it works for most people.

Yes, you are the one who is somehow wrong for not keeping up to date with how people communicate through technology. Its kind of like when the phone became widespread, feeling it was terrible that people wouldn't just come and see you in person instead of ringing you up. It's a better way of interacting that doesn't interfere which compliments your existing forms of communication.
 
And that is a valid reason to violate a persons privacy? So you don't mind giving us a key to your house do you, we want to be sure you are not doing illegal drugs in there either. You know...just to be sure the children in the immediate area are safe.

Fixed. :p
 
I really think this should continue,

a) There is no reason people should be placing their entire lives on a webpage.
b) It should teach people the importance of strong random passwords and not just using the same thing for every one of your accounts.
 
As well, I happen to like America, maybe you should stay out of America and see how much better life is in other countries.

Ya know what, its pretty good out here actually. I always groan when our retarded government or education system decides it's going to follow the US way of doing things to our detriment.
 
@ PurduEE, why would you even use that word here. You're the first person and hopefully last person on this thread. Awkward to say the least. No one here even suggested that word.

And sorry PurduEE, Kyle is not going to come and fight your fights. Here's a suggestion, if you are intellectually that inept to resort to words like the one you used or to ask Kyle to come and save you from this big bad thread, logout, walk away. And that's very good advice. I suggest you first check yourself then, go away.

WTF are you talking about re "that word"? That you make ridiculous generalizations? I don't need Kyle to fight any battle for me - I'm certainly not afraid of an internet bad-ass like you. I'm suggesting that its odd that you would disparage the members of the forum and suggested that you take the advice you're giving me. Go read the drivel you posted about doritos, bawlz and xbox controllers and you'll get it. Sound out the words.

Whatever - I'll let you get back to fighting with the entire forum on this thread.
 
Kinda strange to agree with DeathPrincess for once. :)


The reason why schools ask for this information is to make sure there are no teacher / student relationships going on. And the stance the school districts feel they have to take is one where they are forced to assume the worse rather than to not act and have a teacher in a relationship with a student. Remember, this is not just HS, this is middle school as well.

There are two sides to everything. I'm all for privacy but, I can only assume that all the parents out there want to know factually that the teachers are not dating their sons or daughters. I am sure we can all agree that's a valid concern.

I'm pretty sure parents can "factually" check this out for themselves, both as a function of their parenting but also if they control their kids' facebook accounts. Later on you say about how kids try to get around controlling parental behavior, but...that's how it does, sir.

Also, what sort of society do you live in that all teachers are assumed to be as worse as possible? On behalf of the teachers I had or know that I adore and love for the people that they are, fuck you.

There has to be a level of accountability that is met and this is the only way that works. Sorry, but a wait and see approach or a wait until the 38 year old teacher is dating the 17 year old that just turned 18 that just dropped out of HS and now they are living together just won't cut.

This is common-logical-freaking-sense. No one is trampling on your freedoms here.

So we infringe on privacy to combat the *potential* for some wrongdoing?

Someone mentioned "slippery slope" in a response to you. I second that. Also, feel free to read 1984 if you want hyperbole in the opposite direction.

I'm not picking sides. I'm just saying, when it comes to protecting Children, which I'm all about, I understand. Apparently, you're ok with taking a chance with the occasional pos scum "grooming" some child in middle school or high school. Yes, social websites is apart of this grooming process. After all this is what this is all about. I'm not sure what's so hard to understand about that and why you don't share my zero tolerance attitude toward this type of behavior, even if it means given up a crappy password to crappy Facebook. Seriously, let's put things into proper context here. What has the real value here?

The will being of a child or .... freaking farmville?

Someone also mentioned "strawman argument" to you. Again, I second that suggestion. This is the classic, "oh how can you be against this, if you're against this then you're against the children!" (spoken with sobs and a hand over my heart)

And you are clearly picking sides. Which is fine, in fact, if you just man up to it.


And you guys can stop hiding behind the whole "parents can do more" bullshit. We all know, from being kids ourselves how incredibly easy it was to hide our porn, smoke weed in our bedrooms to sneaking our girlfriends in to god knows what else. I feel bad for most parents. They bust their asses just to keep a roof over their families heads and the health insurance paid. Most Moms and Dads I see are tired as hell and them being able to CSI their teenagers 24/7 which is what it would take, just won't happen.

You're right. And how bad did it make us turn out to be? You make it sound like if parents don't absolutely clamp down on this, their little babies are doomed. Doomed to hell and predators and goblins who will take them away.

Kids are kids.

Besides which, yes parents can do more, and whatever point you're trying to otherwise make doesn't even matter in this topic. Mom and Dad are too tired so lets stomp around on the teachers? Seriously?

Look, I'm REALLY sorry to speak out about your passwords to Facebook and losing that freedom. I personally don't agree. That's a fact. But I do have a girlfriend, and she has a sister and her best friend is dealing with something like this. Her teacher took advantage of her after her dad died, first it was help with homework, then she started to cry on his shoulder over the phone, then he, the teacher wanted to meet, then, well, he started "seeing" this 17 year old girl. He still has his job and my sisters best friend dropped out and now doesn't get to start college in Aug. Apparently there was a lot of Facebook flirting going on and it was how they were able to talk in the first place. So, when I see this debate, I can't help to think about this girl and how things might had been different for her had this teacher been unable to prey upon her.

And this is wide spread.

So you actually *do* have a side and a bias in this.

How is this widespread? I believe in another post you cry about "the real world" and then point to CNN.com (not sure if you were serious or sarcastic). I'm not sure your sample size (sensationalist media and a personal experience) are significant enough?

First of all, it's not "my world" If you want to know exactly who's world we are talking about, turn on CNN. That's who this is all about. Those parents are fighting mad about this type of behavior. And I promise you, they won't be as nice to you as I've been. Come at them with your Cool Ranch Dorito breath, Bawlz energy drink in one hand and a Xbox controller in the other talking about your opinions and they will stomp your asses right back into that gaming chair you stood up from, trust me on that.

Were those childish comments/insults necessary?

This has very little to do about Constitution/BoR and more about, what's the best way to open up a dialog with parents, move forward and address and fix these problems. There is a point in them asking for these passwords. And it's clear why they want them. It goes without saying that School Administrators are parents and have families too. I would hope none of you would for one minute think they were mindless uncaring robots. Not the case at all. Often times, there are going to be many mess steps that will take place when trying to arrive at a point where it all makes sense, for everyone. Again, I'm not taking any sides. But, to me at least, I can understand why they want these passwords. If giving up your password is not something you think is right, then offer up another solution. Dialog.

Dialog? Oh, this is always a rich argument where someone spouts whatever claims, then clamps up and demands someone else solve the problem otherwise they declare themselves the winner.

Here's another solution: let's make sure teachers and students have no contact at all and in fact don't even know who each other are. They can be student 24979 and teacher Mr. J. They'll interact via isolate booths and simple teach and learn in the most sterile purile environment ever.

Dialogue? Solved.



Seriously, you've made your opinion known, which is perfectly fine, but unfortunately are not going to convince anyone else here of your viewpoint with this hamfisted logic and approach. I normally wouldn't post, but your continued, awful retorts, prompted me.

Troll +1 I guess.
 
I can't wait until some employer asks for mine. I will say that I don't have one but I would like to see theirs so that I will know what sort of boss I will be working for.

+1 !

Like another poster, me being an admin and in net security, this question being seriously posed tells me all I need to know about the culture of such an organization. And shame on me if I ever agreed to such egregious nonsense.
 
I think you missed the point. I have a facebook account with a lot of real life friends on it, I never go reading through the wall of crap people post, but if someone sends out a group invite or a personal message, it's there for me to read.

It's simply an efficient way of organising groups. Most people I know use it to give out invites. A couple of people have set up groups for alumni for my old race team, so I'm keeping in touch with the old guys who otherwise I probably would have never seen again in my life. My photographer friends post their work on it occasionally, so every now and then I'll check what new photos they've uploaded.

People assume if you're using facebook you have to be wasting 2 hours a day reading everyone's updates and commenting on what you ate for breakfast or some shit. That's not the way it works for most people.

Yes, you are the one who is somehow wrong for not keeping up to date with how people communicate through technology. Its kind of like when the phone became widespread, feeling it was terrible that people wouldn't just come and see you in person instead of ringing you up. It's a better way of interacting that doesn't interfere which compliments your existing forms of communication.

That would make sense if every other form of electronic communication suddenly disappeared. But, phones, email, IM, and all sorts of other methods of communication still exist and are still widely used. In fact, I bet most of those people browse their Facebook accounts on their phones meaning that it is as 'difficult' to call as it would be to move ones fingers about the screen.
 
Seems like an open-and-shut legal case.
I'm surprised the school board was that stupid.

School boards are notoriously stupid. See: 'Hey! Lets teach about Jesus and his pet dinosaur Sparky in biology class even though out lawyer just called us retards for even thinking such a thing."
 
Kinda strange to agree with DeathPrincess for once. :)

I'm pretty sure parents can "factually" check this out for themselves, both as a function of their parenting but also if they control their kids' facebook accounts. Later on you say about how kids try to get around controlling parental behavior, but...that's how it does, sir.

Also, what sort of society do you live in that all teachers are assumed to be as worse as possible? On behalf of the teachers I had or know that I adore and love for the people that they are, fuck you.

So we infringe on privacy to combat the *potential* for some wrongdoing?

Someone mentioned "slippery slope" in a response to you. I second that. Also, feel free to read 1984 if you want hyperbole in the opposite direction.

Someone also mentioned "strawman argument" to you. Again, I second that suggestion. This is the classic, "oh how can you be against this, if you're against this then you're against the children!" (spoken with sobs and a hand over my heart)

And you are clearly picking sides. Which is fine, in fact, if you just man up to it.

You're right. And how bad did it make us turn out to be? You make it sound like if parents don't absolutely clamp down on this, their little babies are doomed. Doomed to hell and predators and goblins who will take them away.

Kids are kids.

Besides which, yes parents can do more, and whatever point you're trying to otherwise make doesn't even matter in this topic. Mom and Dad are too tired so lets stomp around on the teachers? Seriously?

So you actually *do* have a side and a bias in this.

How is this widespread? I believe in another post you cry about "the real world" and then point to CNN.com (not sure if you were serious or sarcastic). I'm not sure your sample size (sensationalist media and a personal experience) are significant enough?

Were those childish comments/insults necessary?

Dialog? Oh, this is always a rich argument where someone spouts whatever claims, then clamps up and demands someone else solve the problem otherwise they declare themselves the winner.

Here's another solution: let's make sure teachers and students have no contact at all and in fact don't even know who each other are. They can be student 24979 and teacher Mr. J. They'll interact via isolate booths and simple teach and learn in the most sterile purile environment ever.

Dialogue? Solved.

Seriously, you've made your opinion known, which is perfectly fine, but unfortunately are not going to convince anyone else here of your viewpoint with this hamfisted logic and approach. I normally wouldn't post, but your continued, awful retorts, prompted me.

Troll +1 I guess.

Nice: this saved me from going back and quoting all those SixFootDuo posts. The combination of "I'm not biased" + "I'm not choosing sides" + "I know a minor who dated a teacher" + "This is necessary to protect children" + "Only immature videogame nerds wouldn't agree with me" + no concept of what a slippery slope actually is was a little much. And there's no way he's trolling, he's just coming from an extremely biased position.
 
Just change your password to 'gofuckyourself' and when they get offended, just say sorry but thats what it is.
 
Nice: this saved me from going back and quoting all those SixFootDuo posts. The combination of "I'm not biased" + "I'm not choosing sides" + "I know a minor who dated a teacher" + "This is necessary to protect children" + "Only immature videogame nerds wouldn't agree with me" + no concept of what a slippery slope actually is was a little much. And there's no way he's trolling, he's just coming from an extremely biased position.

Agreed - a solid post by LonerVamp.
 
Lastly, assume a teacher gives up his password to his boss. Then teacher posts inappropriate things on his Facebook page to a student. Does he have plausible deniability that he posted it, since someone else on the same campus knows his password and could have done it?

I'm assuming Facebook has private messaging of sorts which is why actual account passwords need to be used. Sorry, I'm not an active Facebook user. But I do use other social networks and Internet communications devices (such as this forum). Shouldn't all of those, or rather in fact, a teacher's whole media presence be subject to scrutiny in a sort of bourgeois voyeur fantasy? I wonder how many bosses in that situation might blackmail or otherwise initiate inappropriate relations *that* way....

Is it just me or is it dumb that teachers have to make a secondary account just to give that one up and save their personal one? Doesn't that drive home that point that people want at least *some* blanket of privacy? Is it a bit ironic that kids do this same behavior to sneak past rules their parents make (the very parents who drive these rules on the teachers)?

Hrmm...I see a common component there but can't quite put my finger on it...
 
Yes, you are the one who is somehow wrong for not keeping up to date with how people communicate through technology. Its kind of like when the phone became widespread, feeling it was terrible that people wouldn't just come and see you in person instead of ringing you up. It's a better way of interacting that doesn't interfere which compliments your existing forms of communication.

bad analogy, sending a text or making a phone call is not the equivalent of going to see someone in person

if we were talking about me missing out on an old school friends birthday because im not on facebook, sure....sue me, but when your own brother can't pick up a phone, that goes well beyond facebook as a communication tool. that's just plain old apathy

you still didn't answer to the fact that to even be on and use facebook i have to expose myself, my info, my thoughts and opinions, to the facebook community. or at minimum everyone in my "friends" list.

i am not anti-social. i carry an android phone with instant access to phone, text, email, etc.....and i always answer it when someone calls. i have a google+ profile even, because on google+ i am not hammered with a zillion farmville notices or don't have to weave through tons of ads or be asked for my permission a dozen times a week for a bunch of crap i don't care about....yes i realize you can opt out of all that garbage, but why the hell should i have to? i shouldn't. and i won't. not when i am sitting here with at least 5 other ways to instantly get in touch with me that don't require me to put up with all that bullshit

i seriously don't understand this attitude that says you should have to put up with all that bullshit just in order to make it easy for lazy people to contact you

fuck that noise, i am a 5 second keypress away, if you can't be bothered to do that much i don't really give a damn what happens
 
That would make sense if every other form of electronic communication suddenly disappeared. But, phones, email, IM, and all sorts of other methods of communication still exist and are still widely used. In fact, I bet most of those people browse their Facebook accounts on their phones meaning that it is as 'difficult' to call as it would be to move ones fingers about the screen.

Social networking sites aren't going to replace other forms of electronic communication, they're just a more efficient method for group communication compared to trying to ring 50 different people or using those big arse group emails and such. I gave the examples for which I use facebook, and they're all things which would be much more annoying to achieve through traditional communication channels. Just because Facebook can be used from phone doesn't mean its just as easy to ring 10 people as it is to message those same 10 people an invite to, say, go out to the pub this friday or come to your birthday party.
 
Social networking sites aren't going to replace other forms of electronic communication, they're just a more efficient method for group communication compared to trying to ring 50 different people or using those big arse group emails and such. I gave the examples for which I use facebook, and they're all things which would be much more annoying to achieve through traditional communication channels. Just because Facebook can be used from phone doesn't mean its just as easy to ring 10 people as it is to message those same 10 people an invite to, say, go out to the pub this friday or come to your birthday party.

you can send a text to multiple people just as easily as making a facebook post, and you don't require anyone to subscribe to facebook, plus you only reach those you really want to reach instead of casting a net hoping to get a few
 
Its the Big Brother Syndrome. People in Power (Govt) believe that everyone is doing something or will do something they don't agree with and to squash that person before they spread any truth or untruth is needed to "Protect Children".

The "To Protect Children" reason is far overused and from what I see, its a last ditch effort to convince mindless dolts that unless this or that is passed we will be harming children and who wants to be on the other side of that argument?

I'm for freedom and that means ALL freedom. I don't need Big Brother telling me what to do or what to think. Unless there is "probable cause" and a warrant issued, I would never willingly answer any questions about any of my activities or political leanings or thoughts or passwords. And even then I have the right to remain silent, so good luck with that. I have nothing to hide but its nobodies business what I do or watch or read or listen to. And if my facebook is so god damned interesting to them, try and hack it.

Will the School District soon ask for your banking password because maybe you are taking bribes from parents for good grades or selling drugs and stashing money. Or maybe you are a hooker or stripper and if they only could have your bank account password to make sure you aren't, because we need to protect the children.

Why don't they ask for your craigslist account and password. Maybe you're selling stolen ipads and to protect the children you need to be stopped.
 
What the f**k are the parents over there? That's such a mild issue that's been blown way out of proportion.

It's not like your daughter had sex with her teacher...and then as the mother, you also had sex with that same teacher. And because of that, your daughter reported things to the school principal (and then the police) instead. Because you stole the teacher from your daughter! What kind of mother are you??? LOL (this actually happened in Japan)
 
if we were talking about me missing out on an old school friends birthday because im not on facebook, sure....sue me, but when your own brother can't pick up a phone, that goes well beyond facebook as a communication tool. that's just plain old apathy
Why can't you see the messages about your niece and ring them? Facebook is a great way of getting the news out there to a lot of people who might want to know, then if they want to contact you back about it personally, they can. Its just a more efficient way of doing things. I might want to know that my mate from University is having a kid, but I also might not want to ring them up about it nor they ring me about it.

you still didn't answer to the fact that to even be on and use facebook i have to expose myself, my info, my thoughts and opinions, to the facebook community. or at minimum everyone in my "friends" list.
I don't think you understand how facebook works. You don't have to expose anything, that's YOUR choice to do that. You know what I have on my facebook account? My name. My old University (where most my friends originate from). That's it. Its not even my full name, I only use half my surname. You wouldn't be able to find me on it unless I told you or added you myself. You know what thoughts and opinions I have on there? None. I almost never post on it. As I said on the previous page, people assume that by having facebook you in turn have to waste 2 hours on it every day posting your deepest darkest thoughts and opinions on it when reality is there's only a small portion of people who actually do that. I can safely say that 95% of the facebook comments I see are from the same 5% of people, and I simply don't read them (unless I'm looking for an excuse to procrastinate).

i seriously don't understand this attitude that says you should have to put up with all that bullshit just in order to make it easy for lazy people to contact you
You don't have to put up with anything, you make an account, add friends, if you see a message it stands out, if you don't, you close the window. It goes both ways, if all your friends and family use it, they shouldn't have to put up with making sure they personally give you all information because you can't keep up with the times and just use a facebook account.
fuck that noise, i am a 5 second keypress away, if you can't be bothered to do that much i don't really give a damn what happens
So go be a hermit and stop complaining. Or you could check facebook, see what news there is and choose to ring them instead of bitching about how people exclude you because you can't be bothered keeping up with their news.
 
you can send a text to multiple people just as easily as making a facebook post, and you don't require anyone to subscribe to facebook, plus you only reach those you really want to reach instead of casting a net hoping to get a few

And hey, people still do that, if they only want to contact a few people and only have to manage a few responses, text messages work great. But for certain tasks facebook is simply a more efficient way of doing it that doesn't require micromanaging things.
 
facebook is an utterly unnecessary way to do what could just as easily be done in a much more personal, meaningful way that doesn't come across as lazy and apathetic, period.

sending out one email or text to a group of people requires no effort beyond a facebook post. and it doesn't require other people be a part of a "social experience"

it's quite confusing how readily people are willing to pimp out themselves to be so involved in everyone else's daily thoughts, because at the end of the day that's all facebook is. a socially acceptable way to be all about everyone else's business. which is rather sickening
 
Pretty much, I have long distance relatives that I never spoke to in 8 years because they aren't really that close to begin with. Now with being able to go on Facebook I get to keep in contact with them and just pop in a message every once in awhile asking how it's going. So much better than picking up a phone and wasting time with long awkward conversations.

You are aware, of course, that instant messengers have been around for over a decade... email has been around since the founding of the internet.

Why the hell does anyone NEED Facebook for sending quick instant messages between people?

They profile you. Anything linked to you will never die or go away.

If you aren't the customer, you are the product. Users of Facebook don't pay. They are the product being sold and tracked. It's the biggest screwjob of privacy in the history of humanity. What boggles my mind is why any person WANTS to use it.

Ten years from now, you may not want everyone to know you just went to the doctor to be sterilized right before your current wife files for divorce. But there it is, on your wall... with all your online non-friends commenting on it, with your linked location from your cellphone putting you at the doctor at that time.


Seriously, wtf?
 
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