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huxley
07-15-2004, 01:23 PM
Ok, bear with me

I lost my job two weeks ago. They gave me O2 computers that I could sell on the net. I sold some but forgot to grab them on the way out. A few weeks pass and my roomate doesnt pay the comcast bill and I cant receive email. This guy contacts me and says he wants a refund for the O2 i never sent. I said I will check today and see if I can get it. He wanted the refund by wednesday. I totally totally forgot about the refund and wake up thursday morning to a phone call from my mom. She is crying and telling me about a guy who called and insulted and berated her for raising such a worthless son. My feedback is 95% positive and this was just a slip up. I immediately give the guy my phone number to call me.

We talk and he tells me how he is from sweden and how americans have no sense of responsibility and how my prior good transactions mean shit. I tell him I logged into paypal immediately in the morning and gave him a refund. He continues to berate me and says that my mom deserved all the words he said to her to. He didnt believe that I forgot and continued to badger me and not let me get a word in.

Anyway, am I a troll for making a few mistakes? I made sure people got their money back and most of them I give them a little extra for their trouble. Yet this guy keeps on getting on my case and calls me a liar and a thief.

I can handle being called those names and I can understand his anger but how could he berate my mother like that. My mother was in fucking tears, fucking tears crying to me on the phone about what he said to her. She is a kind middle aged woman and I dont know how someone could talk to her like that. Am I a troll or what? I paid back the money plus extra and I trired to make everything right yet this swedish/american thinks he is god and can judge me on a few little mistakes. I am so frustrated now and I just wanted your opinions...am I a troll? Maybe I deserved those words given to me but for crying out loud who curses a poor middle aged kind woman. I am so angry right now. He said he has a place in florida (where I am moving) and I want to settle this man to man. Either he calls and apologizes to my mom or I will fight him. I dont care how big he is but I have to do it. This whole thing is driving me crazy. I dont know why I posted this bu ttoo late now. Can I get some opinions please?

ruhk
07-15-2004, 01:26 PM
Ok, bear with me

I lost my job two weeks ago. They gave me O2 computers that I could sell on the net. I sold some but forgot to grab them on the way out. A few weeks pass and my roomate doesnt pay the comcast bill and I cant receive email. This guy contacts me and says he wants a refund for the O2 i never sent. I said I will check today and see if I can get it. He wanted the refund by wednesday. I totally totally forgot about the refund and wake up thursday morning to a phone call from my mom. She is crying and telling me about a guy who called and insulted and berated her for raising such a worthless son. My feedback is 95% positive and this was just a slip up. I immediately give the guy my phone number to call me.

We talk and he tells me how he is from sweden and how americans have no sense of responsibility and how my prior good transactions mean shit. I tell him I logged into paypal immediately in the morning and gave him a refund. He continues to berate me and says that my mom deserved all the words he said to her to. He didnt believe that I forgot and continued to badger me and not let me get a word in.

Anyway, am I a troll for making a few mistakes? I made sure people got their money back and most of them I give them a little extra for their trouble. Yet this guy keeps on getting on my case and calls me a liar and a thief.

I can handle being called those names and I can understand his anger but how could he berate my mother like that. My mother was in fucking tears, fucking tears crying to me on the phone about what he said to her. She is a kind middle aged woman and I dont know how someone could talk to her like that. Am I a troll or what? I paid back the money plus extra and I trired to make everything right yet this swedish/american thinks he is god and can judge me on a few little mistakes. I am so frustrated now and I just wanted your opinions...am I a troll? Maybe I deserved those words given to me but for crying out loud who curses a poor middle aged kind woman. I am so angry right now. He said he has a place in florida (where I am moving) and I want to settle this man to man. Either he calls and apologizes to my mom or I will fight him. I dont care how big he is but I have to do it. This whole thing is driving me crazy. I dont know why I posted this bu ttoo late now. Can I get some opinions please?

No you arent a troll. You deserve some repremand for being forgetfull, but not what this asshole did. Is he still giving you crap even after you gave him his money?

huxley
07-15-2004, 01:29 PM
No you arent a troll. You deserve some repremand for being forgetfull, but not what this asshole did. Is he still giving you crap even after you gave him his money?
I did a refund in paypal and he says "well the money is not mine again until the transaction is complete". I dont know why he is so high and mighty about the whole thing. I tried to be nice and I need him to apologize to my mother. Who talks to a woman like that, what kind of person does that I am just so very very angry right now.

ruhk
07-15-2004, 01:33 PM
I did a refund in paypal and he says "well the money is not mine again until the transaction is complete". I dont know why he is so high and mighty about the whole thing. I tried to be nice and I need him to apologize to my mother. Who talks to a woman like that, what kind of person does that I am just so very very angry right now.

Dont worry about it, he is obviously a piece of Eurotrash.

GreySkyMan
07-15-2004, 04:21 PM
Dont worry about it, he is obviously a piece of Eurotrash.

Quoted for truth.

jmalm
07-15-2004, 05:24 PM
How horrible. I also agree with the previous statements.

scottatwittenberg
07-15-2004, 05:33 PM
i think it is time for you to call up his mom...

or you can just ignore him... because it doens't really matter...

huxley
07-15-2004, 07:00 PM
i think it is time for you to call up his mom...

or you can just ignore him... because it doens't really matter...
I am seriously thinking about calling his mom and letting her know how he treated some poor woman who had nothing to do with anything.

NotSoSimple
07-15-2004, 07:24 PM
Sorry about that man...Ya I dont care how pissed you are at someone, if it didn't involve a mom, then leave her out of it.

You did the right thing man...He on the other hand..Yup..No comment thier.

S0mE0nEsMiNd1
07-15-2004, 08:28 PM
Ok, bear with me

I lost my job two weeks ago. They gave me O2 computers that I could sell on the net. I sold some but forgot to grab them on the way out. A few weeks pass and my roomate doesnt pay the comcast bill and I cant receive email. This guy contacts me and says he wants a refund for the O2 i never sent. I said I will check today and see if I can get it. He wanted the refund by wednesday. I totally totally forgot about the refund and wake up thursday morning to a phone call from my mom. She is crying and telling me about a guy who called and insulted and berated her for raising such a worthless son. My feedback is 95% positive and this was just a slip up. I immediately give the guy my phone number to call me.

We talk and he tells me how he is from sweden and how americans have no sense of responsibility and how my prior good transactions mean shit. I tell him I logged into paypal immediately in the morning and gave him a refund. He continues to berate me and says that my mom deserved all the words he said to her to. He didnt believe that I forgot and continued to badger me and not let me get a word in.

Anyway, am I a troll for making a few mistakes? I made sure people got their money back and most of them I give them a little extra for their trouble. Yet this guy keeps on getting on my case and calls me a liar and a thief.

I can handle being called those names and I can understand his anger but how could he berate my mother like that. My mother was in fucking tears, fucking tears crying to me on the phone about what he said to her. She is a kind middle aged woman and I dont know how someone could talk to her like that. Am I a troll or what? I paid back the money plus extra and I trired to make everything right yet this swedish/american thinks he is god and can judge me on a few little mistakes. I am so frustrated now and I just wanted your opinions...am I a troll? Maybe I deserved those words given to me but for crying out loud who curses a poor middle aged kind woman. I am so angry right now. He said he has a place in florida (where I am moving) and I want to settle this man to man. Either he calls and apologizes to my mom or I will fight him. I dont care how big he is but I have to do it. This whole thing is driving me crazy. I dont know why I posted this bu ttoo late now. Can I get some opinions please?

Alright, heres the deal, your NOT a troll...a troll is someone who RUNS AWAY, and tries to avoid any possible contact.
but IMHO, for making fun of the people of our country, I would send the guy a card with my finger to show him how much I give a fuck about some little bitch in sweeden who talks shit and expects to get his money back.

Brule
07-15-2004, 09:11 PM
No matter what you did, the mother thing is crazy. There have been cases where parent's have been contacted when they have children who are trolls, and if conducted civally there's nothing wrong with that. To haress is another matter. Beating the crap out of him would feel good, but perhaps you could apply some pressure of your own. If it was through eBay or the like, notify them and tell them how it happened. If it was through the forums, do the same. Nobody would help a guy who badgers innocent people, even more for older women.

huxley
07-15-2004, 10:49 PM
Alright, thanks for all your kind words. I thought I did the best I could and I did make some mistakes. I went to my parents and my mom is fine now and we ate some food and talked and all is well.

Cross
07-16-2004, 01:08 AM
I am curious as to who this person is for the fact I want to make sure never to deal with him. As a military service member I would go AOW just to kick his a$$ if he did that to my mother, and claimed it was because I was American and my mother deserved it it gets me mad just thinking about it possibly happening

YellowPeril
07-16-2004, 04:46 AM
man that sucks. that guy must be a real asshole. that was really out of line. hey you should post his info so we can harrass him hehe :)

im jk that wouldnt make things better. but it would feel good.

jackbauer
07-16-2004, 11:34 AM
Roger that guys. you are not a troll. if that guy ever makes it out the NORCAL, i will get my boys to break his legs and tell him that it was because he is swedish!!!

Also can you give us the guys name or Screen name so that we can blast him if he ever posts here and we wont deal with him too!!??

and tell your mom that we are all on her side and that we are going to beat this guys ARSE for her!!! :mad:

anonymooz
07-16-2004, 12:03 PM
This is insane. If someone treated my mom like that, I'd break their knees.

BTW, hux, thanks again for the smooth transaction on that 9800. If you need some help, my friends and I would surely pitch in (North Central Fla). Southern boys don't take too kindly to mothers being harassed, and letting someone know would be no probalo :D

2Fresh
07-16-2004, 12:07 PM
Please psot his info. PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :D :mad:

pbXassassinX1524
07-17-2004, 09:08 PM
That mother thing is out of control... if I were you, I'd find out where he lives, catch the next plane there and.... well, you know how it goes.

huxley
07-18-2004, 04:37 PM
I am debating posting his personal info...

Cross
07-18-2004, 04:43 PM
Post, I would really like to make sure to aviod him. I give my word that I will not cuss him out but flat out I do not want to deal with him ever

IISEVIL
07-18-2004, 07:20 PM
I wouldn't have refunded his money had he done that.. :D but then that's me :D

henryabooboo
07-18-2004, 08:33 PM
yeah that guy is a fucking bitch..i wouldnt ahve refunded his money then...i mean hes a freaking prick i hate people who are so impatient especially when you said you are refunding the money and you have. He disrespected you and your mom he doesnt deserve his refund.

Ruckus
07-18-2004, 08:40 PM
I wouldnt post his personal info (address phone stuff likethat) as you could get in trouble by the mods but I would atleast post his name and screenname so others can avoid this obviously disturbed person.

primea
07-19-2004, 11:44 AM
He is definitely disturbed ... If I were you I'll call his mom and dad and tell them what he did ... some people just have no sense of respect ... :mad:

ruhk
07-19-2004, 12:44 PM
Just post his [H] user name, thats hardly personal information is it not? I certantly dont want to deal with this asshat.

MechWarrior
07-19-2004, 02:27 PM
Just post his [H] user name, thats hardly personal information is it not? I certantly dont want to deal with this asshat.

Truth and 2nded.

Cross
07-19-2004, 02:29 PM
I think we all are on the same page of non of us want to deal with this jerk. Atleast if your going to tell us what he did, we all agree it was way overboard. Please save the rest of us from dealing with him, ;)

nonsequitur
07-21-2004, 09:35 AM
i hope is papers are in order... sounds like he was making terrorist threats over phone lines... you might have to alert the authorities...

alienb
07-25-2004, 09:30 AM
Heh that's a good idea. However, if you take some other [H]'ers offer to go break his legs or whatever, you're no better than he is. I don't think you should post his personal info, but I'd do some research to see if he's actually a citizen, and if he's not, you could most likely get him deported for making threats to a U.S. citizen, or if you were really ambitious, you could give Homeland Security a call, and get his ass indicted on some terrorist bullshit, which he clearly deserves. Other than that, you're a good guy and you're doing the right thing. I'd do business with you in a heartbeat.

MikeF98765
07-25-2004, 04:30 PM
if you can cancel the paypal transaction do that asap. dont give him shit. well... mail him a box of shit maybe. If the money hasn't been taken out of your bank account, take all the money out and open a new account. I would go through that trouble just to give a fuck you to some dickhead.

huxley
07-25-2004, 07:21 PM
Heh that's a good idea. However, if you take some other [H]'ers offer to go break his legs or whatever, you're no better than he is. I don't think you should post his personal info, but I'd do some research to see if he's actually a citizen, and if he's not, you could most likely get him deported for making threats to a U.S. citizen, or if you were really ambitious, you could give Homeland Security a call, and get his ass indicted on some terrorist bullshit, which he clearly deserves. Other than that, you're a good guy and you're doing the right thing. I'd do business with you in a heartbeat.
I know, I am christian and I turn the other cheek when I can. I certainly let them know what he did was wrong and he should be ashamed. Fucking eurotrash just pisses me off. Move back to your euro if you think americans are so shitty. Thanks for all the support and kind words btw

huxley
07-25-2004, 07:22 PM
if you can cancel the paypal transaction do that asap. dont give him shit. well... mail him a box of shit maybe. If the money hasn't been taken out of your bank account, take all the money out and open a new account. I would go through that trouble just to give a fuck you to some dickhead.
I gave him the money back, I have a bad conscience and I just couldnt do it. After the comment I believe he didnt deserve his money back. He spent his money for the pleasure of making a middle aged mother cry and thats how I feel about it.

Wanamingo
07-27-2004, 04:58 PM
Man, huxley, that is . . . messed up, to say the least. I'd be happy to beat him with a piece of Ikea furniture, damn Euro-trash-talkin' bastige.

Cross
07-27-2004, 05:19 PM
I would still like to know his user name so I know to not deal with him :mad:

thepenguin99
07-27-2004, 05:31 PM
Jeez if someone made my mother cry over a transaction I would go crazy. Getting money back would be the least of their worries.

flapperhead
07-31-2004, 04:09 PM
the person who called ur mother and berated her because of your mistake(no one is perfect) is a piece of Sh*t.i am an older person and have seen alot of things both good and bad.first of all If he had called my mother and said that to her, she would have told him to go F**k himself. she is a wonderful, but tough person. secondly you never know who u are dealing with.. most guys like u would deal with it in a normal manner,. plus u have enuff maturity to do some self criticism. one day hes gonna do that to the wrong person,and he will be spitting his teeth out like popcorn.. heh! sorry to hear of ur ordeal my friend. you handled it in a classy way...

Cold Dark Shadow
07-31-2004, 06:59 PM
thats bullshit, You admitted your mistake and took care of it like man, thats all that was needed, you didnt ignore the problem or anything that would deem trollable

if he did that shit to my mom I would have pulled the cash out and "hand delivered" it to him....

eroc
08-03-2004, 10:57 PM
Huxley,

Out of curiosity, do you still have the cables for SGI Indy CD-ROM that you sold me on ebay. I never received them before I left my old location. Had they been sent though I would have received them because I had my mail forwarded a few days before I left. Please let me know. This is the only way I found to contact you since your e-mail has been shut down. Please send me an e-mail to dilloner@engr.orst.edu and let me know what the status of these cables is.

Thanks

ThreeDee
08-04-2004, 02:49 AM
I know, I am christian and I turn the other cheek when I can. I certainly let them know what he did was wrong and he should be ashamed. Fucking eurotrash just pisses me off. Move back to your euro if you think americans are so shitty. Thanks for all the support and kind words btw
lol , most Christians I know dont swear ..but ah well just words ..

I'd kick the guy in his eye if you get the chance tho :mad:

nightanole
08-04-2004, 10:23 AM
Id just hand the phone to some of the mothers i know. You know the ones. The ones that make bikers cry and say they are sorry. I gotta work with one that runs the phones. She wont go crying home, but some of the clients might.

eViL_M@LuM
08-13-2004, 06:05 PM
pm me his info I'd like to give him a call and maybe subscribe him to a gay mans magazine. nothing like ruining a guys day with unsolicited homosexual images at their doorstep

jf1288
08-13-2004, 08:24 PM
lol, i sometimes sign them up for spam, but thats even better.

Fark_Maniac
08-16-2004, 08:51 AM
most definitely want this dude's username...there is no reason to deal with this jerk at all by anyone

phasmatis_nox
08-16-2004, 02:54 PM
Did you neg him?

ThreeDee
08-16-2004, 03:28 PM
..anybody know where huxley disapeered too? ..still have a deal pending :confused:

john10687
08-16-2004, 03:32 PM
fuck him...AMERICA RULES

bestbuysuck$
08-20-2004, 12:11 AM
i would just shake it off...i know he is an asshole, but by being one back does not help the matter. frankly i would beat the shit out of him as well, but there are other legal, etc issues that can become a danger. he isnt worth your time, you did what you needed to do, its complete. i wouldnt do anything else.